horse back riding- who does it? (lessons)

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My daughter is in love with horses and wants to start taking lessons

what do I look for in a good stable?

what should an average price per lesson be?

what equipment will she need? some will share helmets (shudders.... screaming heebie jeebies.... HEAD LICE heck no! )... some say she needs proper riding boots others say she needs a boot with a heal so rubber boots will do
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Rubber bots with a heel won't provide enough ankle support. Riding boots, paddock boots or even hiking boots are good. With the latter, you don't want a real aggressive tread.

In Michigan, riding lessons range from $15 an hour to upwards of $100, although most are $20-50 range depending on instructor and facility.

You want a stable that is safe and mostly organized. A riding instructor who emphasizes safety and fun would be best for someone just starting out. Ask around in your area. The instructor should be able to provide an enclosed area to begin, either a nice indoor arena or at the very least a high-sided outdoor one. Ask what their helmet policy is (some share, some expect you to have your own).

Patandchickens and some others on here are in Ontario and may be able to direct you somewhere.

Good luck!
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What you DON'T want: an instructor who will have you wear an ancient helmet, toss you on a horse without really talking to you about your skill level, then turn you loose with some other people in an arena.
 
Good advice so far
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I would get her a pair of real riding boots (paddock boots or slip-ons) - they're not terribly expensive and they will really be worth it in the end.

For lessons for a child, I would highly recommend someone who will do a 1 - 1.5 hour lesson and teach her how to groom, lead, brush, saddle her horse as well. That's all part of it, and is often the most enjoyable part for kids.

Personally, for someone of her experience level (close to none), I wouldn't pay more than $20 - $35 for an hour lesson. You might also consider group lessons or summer camp; these are a more affordable way to learn, and can be twice as much fun with friends. Also, keep in mind that she doesn't need someone who trains olympic level riders at this point, she just needs the experience with the horse.

Last point... if she falls in love with it, I would recommend looking at leasing a horse for her. You can often find a half lease where you pay half the expenses in exchange for riding 3 days a week - a great way to learn, especially for someone young who will be wanting a more advanced mount before too long.

Good luck!!
 
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Paying a little more for lessons might just get you into some snooty show hunter barn, or it might get you into a really decent program with a licenced instructor who organizes the lessons so they are safe, enjoyable and geared at a child's level.

Look for lessons in which the smallest children are on small, quiet ponies that they can handle and steer easily. The smallest children should have a small area in which their lesson takes place so the instructor can keep them all safe and under control. Half or a third of a large arena for the littlest ones.

A really traditional instructor will often not take children til they're eight or ten, though a few will take youjnger ones and do a good job with them. Then, the children go on a small pony with a saddle, no stirrups and no reins - the instructor keeps the pony on a long line, going around him in a circle as he makes the pony walk, trot or canter, and guides the child through his exercises. There are exercises, such as touching toes, making windmills and leaning back. While many parents don't like to see that - they want the children horse showing right away - there really is nothing better for giving a child 'a seat' (the ability to follow the motions of the horse and balance). It also gives them very good hands on the horse because they learn not to lean on the reins for balance.

I knew an instructor who, I'm not sure where he is now, but he wasn't licensed but was trained to instruct in S America as part of his military service, and he could have taught a gerbil to ride. He ran the most fantastic academy program, the kids learn to speak proper first year Spanish in the lessons too! A real two for one! The lesson horses for the littlest ones were these ancient, comatose little ponies that would just go around the ring like little furry robots and responded perfectly to the instructor's verbal commands. The children hardly had to steer. Then as the kids advanced, they got a little perkier slightly larger pony that they had to think more on, steer more, and remember where they were in the ring.

It was a scream to see those little tiny sprouts do so much, most of the kids ended their lesson standing up on the saddle and jumping off to dismount! He gave the kids an incredible foundation. They were safer and in far better control of their ponies than kids from any other program. And they knew their colors in Spanish!
 
I have started both my kids with vaulting and lunging. It's a great way to learn how to ride. I give vaulting and lunging lessons at my daughters dressage barn and the kids love it. It's a group lesson so it cost less and they get to be with kids there age.
Good luck.
 
I take lessons and I'm doing hunter/jumper and I have my tall showing boots. But when I go to a lesson I wear my Ariat endurance shoes with myariat half-chaps. I had rubber riding boots when I first started and they were horrible! My stable is a very nice and well taken care of. http://www.woodlandhillsequestriancenter.com/ Everything is kept clean and they have wonderful horses. The lesson come in packages, like $350 for 10 lessons, but you can pay $40 everytime you go. Thats what I do. My riding teacher is a very nice young lady, and she will work with me until I get it. If I don't understand she will get on the horse and show me. Anything you do with horses will not be cheap.
 
Another key safety factor is referred to as 'the boards' or 'kick boards' that are attached to the indoor riding arena wall. Instead of hitting the frame of the building or the siding, a rider who falls near the wall, hits a flexible plywood structure built at a slight angle so it's further from the wall at its base and closer to the wall near its top. These 'boards' should cover the bottom 4 or so feet of the indoor riding arena wall. They also prevent a child from bumping his foot on the arena wall, since they are wider at the base, they keep the ponies from getting too close to the walls. Many riding lessons for small children tend to be in indoor arenas, to prevent the animals from getting distracted, and these indoor arenas should have
'kick boards' that are in good condition.

I was watching one day when a teenager was riding a new horse at the lessson barn, to check its behavior before deciding which riders to assign to it. The horse took off and ran the full length of the arena, about 200 feet. When it got to the end of the arena, it made a quick turn, and dumped its rider with incredible force, right onto 'the boards'. It shook the entire building and made such a loud noise that all the staff, construction workers, barn owner and manager all came running from different parts of the facility. She took most of the impact with her back, and her head snapped back and hit the boards too.

The teenager got up, brushed herself off and said, 'WOOPS'. If she had not been in an arena with properly constructed kick boards, if she had not had a helmet on, she would have been seriously injured.

To be perfectly honest, the difference is between night and day, a good facility and instructor vs a bad one. I rode at a school that had 14 lesson horses and had been in operation for many, many years and had NEVER had a major accident.

Outdoors, the properly constructed arena fence functions much as the 'boards' do, it gives and absorbs impact too.

You see, 'safety' in riding is not because of chance or luck. It is a direct result of riding well trained animals in a proper facility with supervision and the right equipment. I know riders in their seventies who have never had a major accident and have been riding almost daily since before they could walk, and not just in an indoor arena, but outdoors, jumping obstacles and galloping. That is not a coincidence. You know the saying, 'stuff happens'? Well a lot less stuff happens to those who are equipped properly in a well designed facility.

Lessons are a big part of safety too. There is a technique to keeping a horse balanced and safe while galloping or jumping an obstacle, to keep him going along smoothly instead of suddenly veering or stopping, and there is also a technique to keeping the horse focused and paying attention to his rider, instead of to the various things going on in the environment. And that is all based on the fundamentals a student learns from a good instructor - having a secure seat, effective rein, seat and leg signals.

People vary a lot in their opinions on riding foot gear. Some barns will specify what gear the child needs, some don't.

Sneakers, running shoes, are out. Crockies, moccasins, clogs, loafers, all out.

Whatever foot wear it is, it needs to stay firmly on the foot, and have a definite heel. A firm leather shoe like a paddock boot is good and tack shops and pony clubs often have a lot of used boots to trade or sell. A shoe with a firm toe cap is always nice as sometimes the little kids forget not to put their foot where the horse is going to put its foot.

Many stables now use 'safety stirrups' - one kind has a rubber band on one side that releases the foot should the child fall. Stirrups also are held on the saddle by safety bars that can be left down so that the stirrup and leather will slip right off if a youngster falls. That's good as it allows the child to fall free of the horse.

Surprisingly enough, children tumbling off a slowly moving small pony into properly maintained arena footing (soft sand and rubber chips, for example), actually rather rarely get hurt if they wear a helmet to prevent a bump on the head. As long as the facility is well engineered, children rarely get hurt if they do fall off. The key is that they fall free of the animal, without getting tangled in anything, and without bumping their head.

It's another matter with an adult. They weigh more, and they tend to be on taller horses.

The most important thing is to buy a child a good quality helmet. Charles Owens makes a very nice helmet. It's important to be sure the helmet the child wears is in good condition, fits snugly, and hasn't already been through a fall without the manufacturer replacing the padding in the helmet. A fall often will crush or damage the padding. Good condition in padding is important to protect the head. That padding should not all be soft. It takes a relatively firm material to absorb the energy of a blow or fall. Helmets often have some comfort pads against the head to absorb sweat and provide comfort, but they also need a good thick layer of harder material to absorb a blow.

Helmet fit is very, very important. Some think a too big hand me down helmet looks 'cute' on a child, or that the child can tip it back if it's too big. Nope, the helmet bottom line should be level when the child is sitting up straight and looking forward normally.

Buy a helmet at a tack shop with good quality employees that know how to fit helmets on children. Don't compromise a single bit on this piece of equipment. I can't even remember all the young folks who have walked away from a fall off a pony with a helmet broke in half, and a skull that was NOT.

A very famous, very skilled American top rider got a very serious skull injury in April, and her goal five months later is to be able to attend her brother's wedding. It will be a long, long road back to riding, and no one is guaranteeing she will compete as she used to. She hopped on a young horse just to try it out, and the animal tripped and fell. She forgot to put on her helmet, she usually wears one.

Every time, every ride. Put the helmet on.

Another point worth bringing up is that it takes quite a bit of time and instruction to learn to ride. After a year of weekly lessons (say, 40 rides), a child can usually post the trot and canter a bit, and perhaps sit on a quiet pony while it steps over a few small jumps. There's a lot of years and a big yawning chasm between that and controlling a more spirited horse and competing in other than 'baby classes'. For many people, learning riding becomes a lifelong adventure, and something they're always improving on.

My thoughts? They could be doing a whole of lot worse things, lol.
 
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Choose an instructor that teaches safety and groundwork first and then riding. I teach kids groundwork and riding at the stable I board at and the first day is a 2 hour safety lesson. Then they learn how to approach a horse and halter the horse on a wooden horse. We get the horse together learn leading and learn to groom. Then groundwork and after break they even do a small amount of mucking. When they start riding they start using a bareback pad with no reins on a lead line. We lead the horse and help the child find their seat and learn the feel of the horses diagonals. We also teach them to trot on a line in a circle around us. When they have a good seat we start with a saddle and reins. There is so much more to horses than just getting up in the saddle and riding. Groundwork gives the kids confidence and teaches the horse to respect them as their leader. Good luck with finding the right place it will truly make a big difference.
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I am afraid of horses.... but my daughter is not.. she hangs out in the barn with my friends husband and helps him muck the stalls of Belgians she has been there when the horses have given birth and has led the babies out to the pasture with my friends husband helping of course... so she has no fear and for that I am thankful!

I was at a riding camp when I was about 10 and the saddle was not fitted to the horse properly and i was slowly sliding off saddle and all started to slide to the left. as the instructors came running up to try and boost me back on. The horse started to run a wee bit faster I tried to bail off and got my foot stuck in the stir-up twisted my ankle BAD ... about 2 years after that I was riding at a friend of the family house and the horse sped up and cornered like he was a Ferrari and i fell off

I will go into the barn at my friends house... I will touch the horse if they are up to the fence but I will not go into the stall or the paddock if they are in there. I think their stud who they call Brad (as in Brad Pitt) knows I am unsure and when he sees me coming he will put his rear up to the rail and i will brush one side of him and then i will call him so he has to turn around so I can get the other side but even though he is so gentle I wont go any further then that... I will not go anywhere near her mares they are ALL moody!
 

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