I still don't understand people selling horses. I have 6 currently, have put down 2 (old age and health issues), and traded one for one of the ones I have (never wanted her, I wanted her colt but they were a package deal). All of my horses are with me for life, heck, one of them was supposed to be a great trail horse, he had never even seen a saddle before... I trained him myself, and another one has 60 day training on him but will likely never be ridden due to exploding into bucking fits when ridden. I will keep both of them for their lives...
My first horse was a GREEN 10 year old arabian and we made that work. You don't need a horse you click with immediately, you need to work with the horse (even if you can't stand it) until you come to an understanding with each other. The only one I traded went to a friend, and I didn't get rid of her because she was green, or mean, which she was, I can deal with that, no problem, but she had NO respect for fences and if she wanted on the other side would just flat out gallop at the fence and run through it... I haven't seen a fence yet that would stop a 1600 pound mare if she did that, she never even TRIED to jump, just threw her head up and hit it with her chest and neck... CONSTANTLY... she was letting the other horses out, so she left...
My first horse was a GREEN 10 year old arabian and we made that work. You don't need a horse you click with immediately, you need to work with the horse (even if you can't stand it) until you come to an understanding with each other. The only one I traded went to a friend, and I didn't get rid of her because she was green, or mean, which she was, I can deal with that, no problem, but she had NO respect for fences and if she wanted on the other side would just flat out gallop at the fence and run through it... I haven't seen a fence yet that would stop a 1600 pound mare if she did that, she never even TRIED to jump, just threw her head up and hit it with her chest and neck... CONSTANTLY... she was letting the other horses out, so she left...