- May 3, 2014
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I think chooks and aart give some pretty sound advice here.
I definately agree with aart that it could be their age, they are basically teenagers, going though puberty.....think about most spotty hormonal teenagers you know, they probably seem batshit crazy and not too keen to be friendly either lol!. A classic *I'm going to my room to listen to music and you dont understand leave me alone* attitude. I'm pretty sure they'll come back down to earth once their wee bodies adjust and they get the hang of being egg laying grown ups instead of flaky kids.
I'd back off on the trying to hold or lift them for a bit and spend more time just sitting spending time with them, when I got my rescues they'd barely seen a human before so I spent a few weeks just laying out on the grass with them, chatting to them and making 'nice baby goo-goo speak' sounds or offering treats, a small bowl of meal worms on my lap or scatter some scratch round and sit out while they ate it so they knew I wasn't a threat to them. After a while I've been able to hand feed them slices of grapes, while saying their names individually as they take their piece and they've now associated their names with treats and come to my call, but it took a lot of perseverance to get to that stage.
Lifting and carrying was almost on their terms, once they came to me and were comfortable I'd lift them with both hands over the wings and cradle them like babies till they calmed while cooing to them and giving them a rock-a-bye baby cuddle and making sure I held them until they looked really calm, or started to close their eyes and relax before letting go while they were on my lap and letting them get up and walk off. They soon realised that it wasn't anything to be scared of and now two of them actively jump up to my lap when they want attention and cuddle time, although my princess still prefers me to lie down so she can cuddle up on her own terms, especially if I allow her to sit against my head or lie down next to me rather than be lifted. I think al lot of it needs to be on their terms, unlike dogs they dont seem to simply put up with being petted just to make their owner happy.
I definately agree with aart that it could be their age, they are basically teenagers, going though puberty.....think about most spotty hormonal teenagers you know, they probably seem batshit crazy and not too keen to be friendly either lol!. A classic *I'm going to my room to listen to music and you dont understand leave me alone* attitude. I'm pretty sure they'll come back down to earth once their wee bodies adjust and they get the hang of being egg laying grown ups instead of flaky kids.
I'd back off on the trying to hold or lift them for a bit and spend more time just sitting spending time with them, when I got my rescues they'd barely seen a human before so I spent a few weeks just laying out on the grass with them, chatting to them and making 'nice baby goo-goo speak' sounds or offering treats, a small bowl of meal worms on my lap or scatter some scratch round and sit out while they ate it so they knew I wasn't a threat to them. After a while I've been able to hand feed them slices of grapes, while saying their names individually as they take their piece and they've now associated their names with treats and come to my call, but it took a lot of perseverance to get to that stage.
Lifting and carrying was almost on their terms, once they came to me and were comfortable I'd lift them with both hands over the wings and cradle them like babies till they calmed while cooing to them and giving them a rock-a-bye baby cuddle and making sure I held them until they looked really calm, or started to close their eyes and relax before letting go while they were on my lap and letting them get up and walk off. They soon realised that it wasn't anything to be scared of and now two of them actively jump up to my lap when they want attention and cuddle time, although my princess still prefers me to lie down so she can cuddle up on her own terms, especially if I allow her to sit against my head or lie down next to me rather than be lifted. I think al lot of it needs to be on their terms, unlike dogs they dont seem to simply put up with being petted just to make their owner happy.