How do I mend a broken heart?/ Im cured!

[EweSheep]

 

[debilorrah]

I really hope things continue to look up for you. If you ever want to talk, just PM me.... I've been through it several times.

 

[jackiedon]

bantymum,

I wish I could just wave my arms and your pain would be gone but I can't.

I know many of us have been through it but when you are in the mist of it, it seems so lonely. But you know you are loved here deeply. Write when you feel bad. Don't worry about if your spelling or puncuation is correct just write or type.

Take a trip to a Children's Hospital and visit just be warned if you go to Sydney beware of a sweet talking neurosurgeon.

Try to volunteer at a school or something the rewards are wonderful.

I'm always here if you need me.

Keep up with PC because he will liften your spirits, he has a gift for that around here.

jackie

 

[bantymum]

Hi Jackie,
Thats so sweet, Yes i do volunteer but with wildlife (birds)
I rescue injured birds and rehab them then release them when they are healed.
I have 2 magpies and 1 sweet little woodduck, they certainly keep me tied up for 5 feeds a day. The magpies squark every 23 hours at least so i cant go anywhere for more than that until i can teach them to feed themselves!! Its like being a mum to a newborn again except i can sleep through the night.
I took Craig's phone number off my mobile phone last week so im not tempted to write any hellos deep in the night!
Funny though cause we had this text thing where i was always the first to start the conversation, so hes probably wondering why he hasnt heard from me. Suck eggs!!

Anyhow, im still broken in parts but the cracks are starting to fill in each day i feel better.
I guess i miss the friendship and giggles more than anything.
Im going to build the duck a rehab area now where he is safe from Preds.
Have a beautiful day
Helenxx

 

[bantymum]

I have found a wonderful medicine for an achy brakey heart:
"My Name is Earl" a few episodes one after each other!!
Man that show makes me laugh so much.
I want to meet that man, Him and PC in a bar.

 

[gumpsgirl]

Glad you're feeling better and so sorry you got your heart broken. If he was a jerk enough to break your heart, then he never deserved you in the first place.

 

[bantymum]

Thankyou gumpsgirl, I dont think he knows he broke my heart, Its such an awkward situation. We have been friends for years until 2 weeks ago on that fateful night when we both had too much champagne, then we must have ruined our friendship!!
Oh well

again!!

Im getting sick of watching these music videos on MTV showing perfect bodies!! It makes me feel really like I should be working out.
I used to look like that when I was their age, I guess when these girls have children they will get podgy too.
Sorry to ramble on!!

 

[justusnak]

Helen, I am glad to hear you are feeling better. some. You are such a strong woman...and I know you probably get tired of hearing it. I know I do. Some times I dont like being " the srong one" in the family....but..it makes the family function. Getting involved with your birds is a great way to recover. Oh, and the show, " My name is Earl" WHAT A CRACKUP! I love watching that show as well. No more music videos now...they make ya fall back to that painfull place. You need laughter...and chickens! LOL

 

[chickflick]

Ok Girl! Enough.... no more crying over Craig. Pick yourself up, dust off your britches and move on! No man is worth it.... there's too much to live for. Look around you....watch the sunrise. Watch the birds. Go for a walk and just be... You don't want to waste what little time we have here on this earth feeling sorry for yourself. You know that song....Live like your dying. It's time to live again! Now go and do something fun!

 

[bantymum]

Thanks Rose and Deb,
Did you know that I have NOT shed one tear through all this, Maybe i am too shellshocked or maybe my heart was too empty to cry.
Need more Earl now! I love that blonde chick, she is so funny and gorgeous without trying too hard.
Hx