How do I mend a broken heart?/ Im cured!

[hypnofrogstevie]

Bantymum. I am so sorry. I am going through the same thing. Things will look up real soon.

hugs from NJ

 

[Beau coop]

I am so sorry your in such pain. Impossible to eat, impossible to eat, impossible to concentrate.

Not knowing the situation- I will not bash Craig. But I will try be here to offer you support.

As cliche as it sounds, take one day at a time. If that's too hard, take 1 hour at a time, 1 minute. Try to be kind to yourself, even if you don't want to be.

Try to eat healthy food when you can eat and stay hydrated. Try to get out and get fresh air- even if you want to stay in bed all day with the covers over your head, force yourself to take a walk-even if only to the mailbox and back.

I hope time heals you quickly.

In the meantime...

Maybe soon you can look at it this way: My boyfriend dumped me --or rather -- I allowed him to set me free. -- Darlene Hunt

 

[HennyPennies2007]

Quote:
Right! Pick yourself up, brush yourself down and start all over again.....you are NOT broken (your a woman and we don't break ever!)

Your heart will feel lighter soon and you will be kicking yourself for it feeling broken.

Don't focus on anything just yet as you could make the wrong decisions.

No man is worth a woman's tears. Look at it as a new window of opportunity for a fresh start.

Hold your head up high and say to hell with it and him.

You are beautiful, there will be someone out there ready to snap you up when you are ready, don't rush things.

Sending you a massive hugs we have all been there and done that and there are plenty more fish in the sea! HIS loss not yours.

(((HUGS)))))))))

English Chick you got it going on... I think your advice was on target! Purple chicken... you are very sweet.

Chin up, girl. Lace your boots up tighter... buy a good bottle of Shiraz and make a toast to SURVIVAL!

 

[Farmer Kitty]

 

[Wildsky]

Helen,

We're here for you!

 

[Eliza]

I think that the time I was able to "stand up" again after a heartbreak was when I realized that I had spent too much time giving away my power to a few insignificant men that I thought I couldn't live without. When I was able to understand, and then grasp that my life, my interests and my self integrity was worth more than what somebody else thought it was - then I wasn't interested in giving my power away anylonger. then I was happy, I became focused, and I became content. I did not NEED someone, I could want someone. Then I noticed a funny thing. They wouldn't stay away from me. The man I married had to work awfully hard to win my attention and my time. Even now. It's great being equal partners - you don't have to work so hard to keep the other entertained. But I prior to my marriage I was happy and content to be single. Being single is a terrific gift too.

 

[Sugar Sand Farm]

Hang in there Bantymum My daughter went through this last year. She didn't think she could live without him. Guess what she ahs met a real man now who thinks of her not himself. She can no longer imagine being with her x now. He was one very selfish SOB Better days are ahead you nevr know whats around that next corner. Hugs and good thoughts Micki

 

[WriterofWords]

Just keep reminding yourself that he can't take away your happiness and self-respect unless you let him. Don't you dare give him that power over you. (((((((((( hugs )))))))))) We're here for you, and we believe in you.

 

[mainchick]

awww there is so much support from everyone! doesn't that alone make you feel just a tiny bit better?
feel bad for bit, take some time to be bummed then GET UP GIRLFRIEND! it's important to mourn but absolutely do not let it consume you!
Take care of yourself!!

 

[Mahonri]

It takes time.

Been there. Done that. Got the emotional scars to prove it.

Hang in there.

Soon, like John McCain, you'll be sleeping like a baby. You'll sleep two hours and then wake up crying.

Smile, that will help too.