Another post on her (think creepy delivery man) made me think about this. I am scared of everything. If i'm setting in the car in front of the gas station waiting for my mom to pay and someone even looks at me for too long I lock the doors and grab a cell phone. This happens all the time, everywhere. We delivered a bed frame to a couple who had just moved to town the other day. It was a black couple and at first only the woman was home. Then the boyfriend pulled up in a beat up old van and walked toward the truck. He was just grabbing some of the pieces to take in, but the way he looked at me made me just want to get out of the truck and RUN! my skin was crawling and I had to really try not to panic. So obviously he wasnn't a threat, but I panic like that all the time. How do you know when something is serious or when you're just over-reacting? Have you ever thought it was something bad and it wasn't, or thought it wasn't bad and it was? How do you deal with it?