Let's see.....I've visited several countries in Europe, and lived in the UK for two years and in Denmark for three. One thing that definitely became clear to me is that traveling to another country is very different from living in one! I don't care to recall all of the time I have spent filling out forms, managing bank accounts, and speaking to immigration officials-- not to mention sitting on planes for eight or more hours desperately wishing we could hurry up and land already.
One very important thing you do get to achieve when living outside of the U.S. is having the chance to view it through the eyes of people from other countries. Only once in five years did I have someone come right out and assume something about me simply because I'm American-- a drunken Dane once declared that I must be a war-monger who would shoot someone for stepping on my foot. But I set him straight about that.
In Europe I learned.....
....that Europeans and Americans both have populations of brown-skinned people to the south who are viewed as ignorant, shady job thieves who want to take advantage of the generosity of their paler northern neighbors.
....that it's possible for good beer to come in a can.
....that it's possible for two towns to be thirty miles apart and yet the people living in them have dramatically different accents.
....that a mail carrier on a bike smoking a pipe can be quite picturesque.
....that several months among non-Americans could dramatically alter my own accent, because some people unconsciously imitate the inflection of the people they're speaking to in order to be better understood.
....that it really makes more sense to learn how to drink before you learn how to drive.
....how to play snooker, and the rules of cricket...both of which I've forgotten.
....that the Irish Sea is
cold to swim in.
....that the Crown Princess of Denmark used to be a real estate agent, and met the Crown Prince at a bar in Sydney, Australia during the 2000 Olympics.
...that America really needs more castles. We definitely have a castle deficit.
...that the Eurovision Song Contest is truly an event unlike any other.
...that we really have so much more in common than is often proclaimed.