you found out your dd decided to leave your grandsone to her and her boyfriends roomate if something should happen them? I found out this by accident. she has been using one of my cell phones and she texted roomate asking him this(roomate is a single guy with no children who likes to party all of the time and is a womanizer) we got the phone back and she didnt delete the text for some reason. Ayden (GS) had a trach. done last January. I am the one who goes with her her and baby to all apointments and stays with her at the hospital and the only one that goes with her to his surgeries. I am the one who doesnt work so when he needs to go to the doctor ect. she has someone to help her. I am the one who comes and babysits so when she doesnt get enough sleep at night she can sleep in or even stays with him when she is sick... but I am not good enough to raise him if something happens to her and db... I know all his medical history and how to care for him and cpr... roomate doesnot...
My heart is broken. I feel so used. If this babyt needs anything I do with out so he gets it. I change my plans just so I can help her... Am I wrong to be upset. Babys daddys family hardly sees him and they live closer to him than Ido (i could handle it even if they chose that side of the family) but to give him to a non relative who has no experience with children.
sorry I just needed to vent...
My heart is broken. I feel so used. If this babyt needs anything I do with out so he gets it. I change my plans just so I can help her... Am I wrong to be upset. Babys daddys family hardly sees him and they live closer to him than Ido (i could handle it even if they chose that side of the family) but to give him to a non relative who has no experience with children.
sorry I just needed to vent...