I am having a difficult time dealing with a friend who is upset about their financial situation. I have tried making suggestions to help them save $ and cutback on expenses, but they have an answer on everything and how it won't save them $. If they aren't willing to give up the cable and cell phone bill, I can't make them, nor can I see anyway to help them. I don't want to criticize my friend or hurt her feelings, but how do I support her and make her feel better about their situation? She is really down about the finances in their family.