If some one asked to borrow a piece of farm equipment, expensive equipment, and you were pressured to lend it by people who told you the guy was in need, and then you found out the person used the equipment to do a job for some one else?
a.) well, he was in need, and he needed to make money....
b.) not cool, he used your equipment to make a profit and in effect became a competitor using your equipment!
He is asking again, to use another piece. I am torn between both feelings, these are hard times for everyone, but just replacing fuel doesn't seem enough to me. And I feel like he was deceptive the first time by not being honest about his "need". Am I right or being uncharitable?
a.) well, he was in need, and he needed to make money....
b.) not cool, he used your equipment to make a profit and in effect became a competitor using your equipment!
He is asking again, to use another piece. I am torn between both feelings, these are hard times for everyone, but just replacing fuel doesn't seem enough to me. And I feel like he was deceptive the first time by not being honest about his "need". Am I right or being uncharitable?