I agree, your issue is ventilation, not insulation. I've had 6 week old chicks go through temperatures below freezing with no problems. I've seen chickens sleep in trees in temperatures below zero Fahrenheit with no issues. Ventilation was fabulous in those trees. Their feathers and down provided great insulation, but that is always with them. Another issue is a cold wind hitting them, ruffling their feathers and letting the natural insulation of their feathers fail. Those trees were pretty well sheltered from wind plus they can hide behind limbs and the trunk. They survived on their own for thousands of years before we domesticated them and started causing them trouble.
The problems come in when we keep them cooped up in coops. In winter the coops can hold moisture unless they are well ventilated. That moisture can cause problems with frostbite. Moisture can come from their breath, their poop, or open water in the coop. Warm air rises in cooler air and holds more moisture than cool air. Openings up high allow moisture to escape without a cold wind blowing on them and ruffling their feathers.
In summer the problem is generally excess heat. A wind hitting them in the roost is not an issue, it will not hurt them. Lots of ventilation high and low can remove excess heat.
Another potential problem, turning your nests into ovens. When you build your coop, put the nests on the north or east side so the afternoon sun does not turn them into dangerous heat traps.
Condensation can be an issue with metal or plastic coops. Warm moist air hits a cooler surface and water condenses out of it. Where you are you can probably see those conditions several months of the year, especially in the mornings as the air starts to heat up. I get that in my coop with metal roofing. Moisture condenses on the underside of the roof and drips down. To me the danger is that the moisture keeps the coop floor wet enough that anaerobic bacteria can grow. That means it stays wet for days on end, does not dry out. The anaerobic bacteria can stink badly and a wet coop harbors disease. I have great ventilation in my coop so the floor does not stay wet, it dries out. It has not caused any problems for me other than me getting hit with a few drops when I go down there later in the morning. I'm not sweet enough to melt.
Some people do have issues with condensate. It might drip in feed or nests. It might not dry out during the day when the dripping stops. Insulation properly applied will stop condensation. Put it on the underside of your roof or on problem walls. The chickens will often eat it so you need to cover it, probably with some kind of paneling. Mommy Mouse might set up housekeeping in that area. It doesn't mean that she will, just that it is possible.
Your concern is mites. I agree, they are a pain. I think it will be extremely hard to build a coop and not have somewhere mites can live. I don't know your feelings on pesticides. I think it would be much more cost effective to treat them with a pesticide than rebuild a coop and find you still have the problem. But if you want to try that, good luck.