Husband just died

I am sorry for your loss and all the pain and guilt you are feeling. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Great point GGCM, it's never too late to let someone know how you felt, or any last things you want to say. He's still in your heart - speak to him there.
 
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please don't beat yourself up with what ifs. We never know when our time is up. We are not meant to so we can focus on living.
For everyones sake I hope things can be worked out without things turning nasty. I am sorry you and the girls have to go through this.
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Oh my gosh you poor soul. There is a huge lump in my throat. YOu see my DH has been somewhat of a jerk the past few days, now I realize, it doesnt matter. I love him and still have the chance to tell him. Thank you for the wake up call sweetie.

As someone else said, tell him all of those things. It is my belief that he can hear you. My Dad died of a heart attack on his 55th birthday, he was driving his Harely and my Mom was his passenger so we lost them both. It has been 10 years and I tell them everything. I like to believe they were with me the day I got married and other major events.


Hug your little girl and know we all have you in our hearts and our minds.
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I'm sitting here trying not to cry, but doing it anyway.

I sent you a pm. I hope you find it useful

I went through this in July. I'm just so so sorry. We had been raising our now 5 yr old grand daughter, so he was really her only dad. They say sometmes it hits them later, so look out for that. Could even be years.

So much sounds so familiar to me. The plans, the plans.

Take time for yourself. You're going to need your strength. Breath, drink water, sleep when you can, repeat.

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