I am a Mommy!!

[TwoCrows]

I'll think about it. I have been taking photos and some videos so my sister in Idaho can see the progress. The Coop is a way for me to work through traumatic grief. My Dr. suggested that I draw out the plans for something, calculate what it would take to do the project and complete the project as an act of closure and love. When I met with her four months later and I had the foundation done, chicks in the brooder and she was shocked. She was thinking a table or a picture frame....
My husband and I had known each other from early teens, married at 18/20. We would have celebrated our 45th anniversary. He suffered a traumatic brain injury in a workplace accident, March last year. I said my last good by 4 days later. So, I know it is a little over the top, but it will be my happy place. The garden beds will be completed this summer as well. Our two daughters and two grandchildren will have produce to use and healthy eggs for their tables. Ken would have been right next to me with every cut and screw.

Oh gosh, I am so sorry you lost your husband. How traumatic this must have been for you after nearly 45 years, a life time of sharing your lives! I would be so lost. My heart goes out to you. My hubby and I have been together for 34 years, I can't imagine living a day without him. You are a strong gal.

 

[Eggcentric NanaJ]

Oh gosh, I am so sorry you lost your husband. How traumatic this must have been for you after nearly 45 years, a life time of sharing your lives! I would be so lost. My heart goes out to you. My hubby and I have been together for 34 years, I can't imagine living a day without him. You are a strong gal.

I appreciate the kind words, treasure every day. We were blessed and that is what gives me strength. It may seem crazy, but I know if I can pull this project off, I will be OK. My chicks are so sweet and lovable. Our daughters felt I needed a protector, that's where Kingston came into the picture. We lost our German Shepherd 3 weeks before Ken, it was a really bad month. Kingston and the chicks are gifts. He is so gentle with the chicks and looks in on them every time I am with them. They are not afraid of him. He is really just an 80 lb. live Muppet.

 

[TwoCrows]

I appreciate the kind words, treasure every day. We were blessed and that is what gives me strength. It may seem crazy, but I know if I can pull this project off, I will be OK. My chicks are so sweet and lovable. Our daughters felt I needed a protector, that's where Kingston came into the picture. We lost our German Shepherd 3 weeks before Ken, it was a really bad month. Kingston and the chicks are gifts. He is so gentle with the chicks and looks in on them every time I am with them. They are not afraid of him. He is really just an 80 lb. live Muppet. View attachment 3527143

Animals can be wonderful emotional support for the heart. They can't replace our lost partners but they can fill up some of that giant hole left in our hearts. Animals get right in there and make a nest in our hearts. And I do believe you are correct and on the right path to healing!

Aww...Kingston is absolutely adorable!! He looks very easy to fall in love with. I am so glad your babies are filling you with love. ❤