I am so mad right now.........:(

[Southernbelle]

I would be really hurt if that happened to me. The only reason you were expecting the gift is because they TOLD you ahead of time they wanted to do that with you. When they told you about their pedicures, I probably would have flat-out asked why they got them now when we were all planning to go for my birthday in two weeks?

 

[Foleys]

I would not have expected it if we hadent had it planed for like a month and who wants to go by themselfs....It is not selfish to expect somthing that was planed. I just had my hopes up that we all could go together. I also understand that it is nine days away but they are not the type to go nine days after they got it done.

 

[Foleys]

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I did ask them and they said that they didnt know if my hubby was going to get me a gift certificute to go. My point is even if he did now I got to go alone and it is much funner to go with people espically on your b-day.

 

[Mandalina]

I'm sorry! Happy Early Birthday! I say get your BFF to go with you and then have a good time without them.And get a really nice big birthday cake bc cake fixes everything but the scale

 

[agnes_day]

are pedicures really fun?
i have never had one...dont they just paint your nails and stuff? i guess they are for people with attractive feet!

 

[Foleys]

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Yes they are fun and relaxing and they feel good.

 

[Laurajean]

I think I agree with Redhen for the most part on this one. Granted, it was pretty inconsiderate of them to say they planned to treat you to this and then back out, but how can you really get mad when it was a GIFT to begin with? I can totally understand feeling bummed and disappointed, I would too. But mad? That was a lot of flaming faces, lol. They didn't have to offer or do anything. Remember to be grateful. Gifts are meant to come from generosity, not obligation. I haven't received a birthday gift in years. My dad sends me a card and that's about it. I'm happy that he thought of me, gifts aren't that important to be so angry "you could scream", are they??

 

[lockedhearts]

I get peds by myself all the time, for me it is my ME time.............

 

[Laurajean]

If the main problem is that you wanted to go with friends, then see if you get a certificate, and if not then buy one yourself, and invite some other friends or family!

Who needs them, right?

 

[dntd]

I think I would be offended. It has nothing to do with who pays, it's the fact that she was left out and then taunted.