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I was raised by a step-parent too. My father was murdered when I was 12. My step-dad was more of a parent to me than my barely-lucid mother ever was. I thrived best then. But he was killed in a horrible car crash when I was 18..days before my high-school graduation. I know how it feels to think you have been dealt a bad hand...but my thing is that this is life...you can't just yell "MISDEAL" and get a new one. You have got to make the best of what you have....no matter how crappy YOU think it is.
And what REALLY chaps me..is her hand is not that bad. Other people have had WORSE...and BECAME better. She fights it...she WANTS to be lesser. I just don' get that. I can't get that. Her mom is not the best example of a human...but she is alive...her dad is wonderful and although he doesn't like her...her loves her and he is alive. I will give to someone as long as they show appreciation for it & are working to improve themselves. If that stops...so do it. There are people more deserving of an upper hand that WANT it.
I was raised by a step-parent too. My father was murdered when I was 12. My step-dad was more of a parent to me than my barely-lucid mother ever was. I thrived best then. But he was killed in a horrible car crash when I was 18..days before my high-school graduation. I know how it feels to think you have been dealt a bad hand...but my thing is that this is life...you can't just yell "MISDEAL" and get a new one. You have got to make the best of what you have....no matter how crappy YOU think it is.
And what REALLY chaps me..is her hand is not that bad. Other people have had WORSE...and BECAME better. She fights it...she WANTS to be lesser. I just don' get that. I can't get that. Her mom is not the best example of a human...but she is alive...her dad is wonderful and although he doesn't like her...her loves her and he is alive. I will give to someone as long as they show appreciation for it & are working to improve themselves. If that stops...so do it. There are people more deserving of an upper hand that WANT it.