I just wanna cry right now....... ***UPDATE***

[equine chick]

Go see another doctor and get an ultrasound and a blood pregnancy test. This could be a pregnancy but may be a large ovarian cyst or even a kidney stone. Are you still having pain? What other symptoms are you having???

 

[ibpboo]

Are you having any pain? If you do start having pain or something, go back in. Don't take the pills if you don't want to. Best of luck to you!
My sister had an ectopic once, she was in a lot of pain and thats what caused her to call doctor, she didn't even know she was pregnant.

 

[Chickadee28]

Sorry that your appt did not go better

I never had missed a period until the past year. I had a 45 day cycle! I thought I was preg, but I was not, just very late. Not sure why and I eventually did get my period. It took a few months for my cycles to get back to normal.

While it can be frustrating, Dr's do not normally do testing after one missed period. It is "normal" if it happens once in a while and you do not have any other symptoms. Keep track of how long your cycles are over the next few months in case the problem persists.

 

[RubberChickenLubber]

I just read this post. I hope everything turns out to be ok, whether pregnant or not. Your dr sounds about like my first ob. They did an u/s at 12 weeks and refused to do another. Even when I was 30 weeks and not feeling my baby move. I didn't even know if it was a boy or girl. At 31 weeks I went for a check up and was told everything was fine. That night I ended up in the er with hip pain so bad I could even sit on the toilet. They measured me and I measured for 41 weeks. They did an u/s and I had this tiny baby floating in a lot of fluid. After an amnio I found out it was a girl. After all of this my ob said that the lack of movement wasn't a big deal until I was 36 weeks and then she would have done stress test

. I left her and started going to specialist over an hour away. My daughter, Payton Ryleigh, was the first of 3 babies that I lost. She was born at 36 weeks, so much for doing stress test at 36 weeks.

Anyways, my point is, find a better dr. Some just don't know what in the world they are doing, and sometimes do more harm than good. Sorry It seems I hijacked your thread.

 

[love-my-wolves]

Thanks everyone for your support! I will definitely get another opinion, but it will have to wait a few days. I'm gonna try to relax, and get on with some semblence of normalcy. I got an appt for a new doctor on Monday. If I start, I will cancel it. Or if something else changes.
No, I'm not really having any pain, just some discomfort. Not even like PMS, more like gas-ish. I'm still so tired. Take naps, and I never do that! Don't have a taste for most foods, especially soda, which is mega-weird since I'm a die-hard Pepsi-haulic. Nausea, big time!!! I never get sick, and nausea is very weird for me!!! I only had some nausea with one of my 5 pregnancies! I have had 2 miscarrages, maybe that is what this was? I dunno, I'm so confused.
I'll just keep on praying, and hopefully will get an answer soon. Anyone that is willing, please keep me in your prayers! Thanks everyone, you're the best!!!! Steph

 

[mommy9994]

the pills are likely bcp, and may or maynot start your period regardless of if you are preggie or not. I would not even get the scrip filled. As far as the - tests go... well, right now at my house, "Mr. 3 neg. tests" just brought me his math to correct, "Miss 1 neg. test" is playing The Cat In The Hat on the computer, and "Mr. + test at 3 weeks" is snuggling "Miss 2 neg. tests". The general rule with preggie tests is a + no matter how faint is a +, but a - means test again in a few days.

 

[lilshadow]

If you still have concerns and worries, I would get a second op. it never hurts. Also, if it was a urine test, I never trust those things, get a blood test. It is accurite. Trust me I know. (5) boys...lol

The reason I say second op. is because I had found a lump on my right br. went to Doc, and he sent me for mammo. Mammo showed nothing. They said I was fine, but I didn't feel that is was fine. I went for a second op, with a surgeon, and ended up having a lumpectomy. Trust your instinct(spelling) not a doctor's. I hope that I haven't offended anyone.

 

[hazelton farms]

geez..I don't think I'd take those pills if I thought I was pregnant. Could end up causing you to miscarry if you are wanting to keep the pregnancy and you actually ARE pregnant.

Daughter number 4 was a neg. test two weeks late. A month and one weird period later, retested and well, now I have kid #4. So...

I think your Dr. doesn't have his priorities straight and I'd go in there steaming mad! But that's me! I refuse to pay that kinda money and NOT get my money's worth! Demand attention and treatment. You almost have to from them these days! They are working with ins. companies and NOT with people that need them!

Stacy

 

[nccountrygirl]

When I was pregnant with my DD I knew that I was but 4 pregnancy test at the Drs. kept saying I wasen't and I was given the little white pills too and I didn't start either. I finally went to another OBGYN and they did a pelvic exam and lo and behold I was 3 months pregnant. I would get a second opinion.

 

[3peeps]

I'm really sorry for all this uncertainty you are experiencing. Not knowing what's going on can be the worst. I have had one miscarriage and one perfectly healthy daughter. I have also had a lot of problems hormone-wise, and have suspected pregnancies when I wasn't pregnant (suposedly). The possibility of being pregnant, or getting pregnant when circumstances are challenging financially or otherwise, can cause so much internal turmoil. After a year and a half of thinking, my husband and I finally decided to have a vasectomy. We canceled the first appointment because we still had doubts. We finally did it two months ago, and then I still cried and wondered if we should just give it one last "shot." We now are happy with our decision (even though we're still not technically in the clear) and I am relieved to know I won't have a choice to worry anymore...well, most likely!

I hope that you end up wonderfully healthy and that all this turns out well with your new doctor on Monday. Please try to rest, knowing that many of us have been there before and truly sympathize. Maybe after this is all figured out, you and your husband can celebrate whatever results you get with a happy night together. Do treat yourself with something!