I know I am being selfish and it drives me crazy but I can't help it..

[debilorrah]

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I think problem is putting it mildly. Wicked and hateful is a better description. Kill her with kindness. With people like that, it always makes me feel better and makes them angry.

 

[BeckyLa]

I guess I just needed to hear I really am justified in being upset over this.

Justified, heck yeah!!! Does your husband know how much his actions are hurting you? Does he fully understand? I can understand his fear of her having another heart attack, perhaps even "the big one," and then he would feel responsible, but, still, right is right.

But I do understand....

....and wish I could help.​

 

[baldie]

Wow, I am surprised that after 2 years of not talking to her, she would've got the point. My man was a mamma & daddys boy, being the youngest of 6 kids. They felt like I "stole" him, even his big brother felt that way, they tried & succeeded in causing ALOT of trouble for us, it just brought me & him closer. I think they thought it would break us apart. WRONG!! He didn't talk to his family for a couple of years after all the problems they caused. Now we "associate" with most of them, but as far as his mom, she loves me, it was his dad that tried to break us up and it STUNK, have a great holiday and I hope 15 months goes by fast for you!!!!

 

[vfem]

Girl I have 100 cuss words for that woman.... and I can't find the angry smiley on here?! What gives?! ARGH!

I'm feeling for you very strongly right now.

Why can't she get him a ticket home, and get herself a ticket to your house so you can stick your foot up her.... well.... you know what I mean. I'm mad for you... you are not being selfish... its not like you ever get to see the man who's children you have.

 

[baldie]

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Obviously because she is GREEDY and one of those people that will NEVER grow up!!!!! She is RUDE!!!!!!!!

 

[luvmychicknkids]

You know, I think the fear she might have "the big one" is part of it. I wish she would just get it over with, personally.

Thankfully his dad is a sweetheart but he is unfortunatley squished right under that beast's thumb.

I just went out and held some of my chickies. Amazing how that improves your mood.

 

[redhen]

Right..the "nice" thing to have done, would be to have maybe at least alternate years with you..but, she didnt even offer that....so, she's not very nice at all!...greedy is the word..i believe.

 

[horsejody]

OK, this is what I would do. If you don't have a cell phone with unlimited minutes, borrow one. When he is with mama, call him and talk to him all day long. Totally monopolize his time there.

 

[baldie]

Well its good your feeling better!! It will be alright soon enough, although, I am sure it does stink right now. Im sorry.

 

[redhen]

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Obviously because she is GREEDY and one of those people that will NEVER grow up!!!!! She is RUDE!!!!!!!!

LOL..we were typing at the same time , i think...

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