As long as you recognize that you're in denial, feel free to stay there as long as you like 
Mature roosters do have longer tails than mature hens, but that doesn't hold true when they're chicks. If anything, it seems that roosters are more likely to have short tails when they're young.
You are right that your cockerels currently have combs the size of mature hens' combs. The problem is that yours are only 8 weeks old, and pullets don't grow their combs that big, that fast.

Mature roosters do have longer tails than mature hens, but that doesn't hold true when they're chicks. If anything, it seems that roosters are more likely to have short tails when they're young.
You are right that your cockerels currently have combs the size of mature hens' combs. The problem is that yours are only 8 weeks old, and pullets don't grow their combs that big, that fast.