Crazy - I'm not sure. I'm close to Asheville, if that helps at all.
Sunshine, I believe I was told 9 weeks. That's right about right for Ruby, give or take a few weeks from the time that I noticed she was wobbling with babies. I never felt her babies, either. I tried, but never did. I could tell that she was getting bigger, but I could never externally palpitate babies. The problem is, there's really no telling what she will do. She may try to find a safe place in your garage or she may just as well have them off somewhere. That is what I did not want as we had people abandon a lot of cats at our house growing up and feral kittens are not easy to get friendly at all. They do not stand a lot of chance of catching and rehoming unless you trap them and even then you'll have issue rehoming them or sterilizing them.
I did not touch Ruby's kittens right after birth, but did move them in to a different box later that day and have touched them a few times since. Mainly because she is caged and cannot move them. If I did not have her caged, I would not risk it, but that's just me.