The surest way to get my aggressive boy to go on the offensive is to stick a boot out at him. If say I forgot to grab the “ magic chicken stick of respectfulness” and am out there in yoga pants in a coffee deprived, crack of dawn stupor... which
never happens! It’s just the perfect Target for him to work out his morning frustrations on.
Edit: I didn’t know about this until it happened, I tested it out again a few days later, and yep, presenting a boot in the wrong way can trigger an undesirable, but natural, attack response. Like I said... a learning curve, and experience is the
best teacher if you adopt an attitude of learning from these events.