I might have gotten my own cookie of how some things are offensive. I admit that I have ridiculed other people's offense. I thought they just should act normal and not be such whining baby's. Because it is all a joke and in good fun.
But it isn't. You can use other words for your problems then 'jew gold' or "nazi gold'. You removed 'jew gold' now and changed it in to 'nazi gold'. I am still offended because I am a child of jews and nazi's. And so is everyone around me. And we are okay with that since we had no choice in what our grandparents did. But then someone in America has a problem with this?
You have a problem with how these people have money and treat you like nothing. They will do that even if they were jew, nazi, Pakistani, Sulawesi, or whatever. Please just say that and don't use terms as jew or nazi gold. I really want to know your story and listen to you, my human heart wants that. But using these kind of terms makes it uneasy for me, because, allthough you mean it well and it is a "common saying' in the USA, that makes me feel as a nazi/jew child that I am at fault. This blocks me from understanding you. Please just say what you feel without using terms that involve a group of people, just be you and tell what you feel, then I can be there for you.
If you can read German and English I will post the last Whatsapp posts that actually got me Kicked out of the family forum. I chose my words wisely and initially tried to deescalate this conversation. That wasn't going well after several back and forths...
[3:37 AM, 7/15/2018] Andy: Great, thanks for the info.
[3:38 AM, 7/15/2018] Andy: This matter is important to me, she's not gerring any younger
[3:38 AM, 7/15/2018] Andy:
[3:38 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: I have to have a 100% P/T disability rating for her to have insurance but it is on my mind.
[3:40 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Thanks Andy for the reminder I am on the VA website now filling that out.
[3:50 AM, 7/15/2018] Andy:
[3:54 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: I will leave that window open it will not allow me to fill out the form at this moment. However, your sister called 911 and I was in the hospital this week related to my military disabilities. We are going to get our 100% off of this.
[3:57 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Also I wouldnever wish what I experienced on anyone.
[3:57 AM, 7/15/2018] Henny:
[3:58 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Grand Mal Seizures aren't something to joke about.
[3:59 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: I scared the hell out of your sister.
[4:00 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Additionally, my brain still isn't right.
[4:11 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Also, Kathrin still isn't allowing me to drive. Even though this event is 3 days past. It has absolutely nothing to do with alcohol or whatever. That seizure really messed me up bad.
[5:00 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Allen here- Apparently I was foaming at the mouth, and making wierd noises. My muscles have finally stopped aching. I really hoe you never experience this. Just saying.
[5:03 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Your sis was a pro at handling the situation. Man I love her!
[5:04 AM, 7/15/2018] Henny: Stop bubbling, Andy is at wok!
[5:04 AM, 7/15/2018] Henny: Work!
[5:04 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: ❤
[8:21 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Allen here:
[8:22 AM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Fingers crossed this one gets me to 100% and Kathrin her health insurance.
[12:45 PM, 7/15/2018] Kat: Wow!!! Wenn das alles hier nicht so traurig waere, koennte man fast darueber lachen! Allen ging in den Irak als Kleemann, stand auf seiner Uniform! Und seit wann muss man danch fragen? Musstest du die Omi nach Erlaubnis fragen? Wir leben im 21. Jahundert! Und dass du dann die Ringluege aufbringst, finde ich echt schmuddelig und Tatsachenverdrehend! Ich habe heute noch was vor, melde mich morgen oder so und schau mal bitte im Internet nach, was ein Grand Mal Krampfanfall ist, nicht lustig.
[12:46 PM, 7/15/2018] Henny:
[1:44 PM, 7/15/2018] Henny: Ihr seid doch nur peinlich
[3:36 PM, 7/15/2018] Kerstin: Gute Besserung Allen, grand mal seizures are not to be taken lightly. Also, thank you for getting healthcare insurance for Kathrin
[3:42 PM, 7/15/2018] Allen lawrence kleemann: Danke Schoen Kerstin. Than you for posessing empathy.
[10:14 PM, 7/15/2018] Kat: sind wir das
[1:14 AM, 7/18/2018] Allen lawrence kleemann: Wow Henny reading your messages I am thinking it it time for you to look into altzheimers homes. I have no idea why you are such a disgusting individual but you are. I wil never apologize for my words. Good luck in the home.
[1:29 AM, 7/18/2018] Allen lawrence kleemann: We live around loads of brown bodies, I do not mind beings "El Gringo" and I truly love living with ""La Gringa" here. I couldn't be happier. Man I love that gringa!
[1:43 AM, 7/18/2018] Allen lawrence kleemann: One final thing I will mention is my neighbors do not want to smear feces on my house. Can you say the same?
[1:49 AM, 7/18/2018] Allen lawrence kleemann: I love everyone here and apologize for fighting with Henny(but it was her fight). I do not know why we needed to have a public fight in the first place. But Henny choose the time and place please ask her.
That was just a sampling, since then Her sister and one brother have left that "Kleemann Intern" forum as well and we only communicate directly. Obviously without doing Screenshots the offensive emoji's from her mother (Henny) didn't copy over with the copy/paste but I am leaving this as it is. (Andy) Her Brother was sending encouragement emoji's.
edit 24m after original was posted---
This isn't even 10% of the nastieness sent my way during a 3 day period. There were much nastier bits I didn't include, but they are available upon request.
