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At least Charlie Sheen knows he's slimey. His show "Two and a Half Men" cracks me up, in great part because he plays such a letch.
I *used* to like Mel Gibson
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So what if you are in the middle of a divorce and meet someone you are
interested in A LOT? What do you do?
What about all the people who live together, which in my opinion, is
unhealthy, an opinion shared by the majority of mental health practitioners.
This is a gray area and quite frankly I'm surprised by the hardline and
judgemental opinions being stated by people here I've always
considered more open minded people.
For the record I believe cheating on someone is the lowest form of
dishonesty.
So what if you are in the middle of a divorce and meet someone you are
interested in A LOT? What do you do?
What about all the people who live together, which in my opinion, is
unhealthy, an opinion shared by the majority of mental health practitioners.
This is a gray area and quite frankly I'm surprised by the hardline and
judgemental opinions being stated by people here I've always
considered more open minded people.
For the record I believe cheating on someone is the lowest form of
dishonesty.
I have always been a Mel fan. I always figured that I am in it for the actor, not the man.
If he entertains me as an actor, great. His life as a man is none of my business unless it affects me personally.
If he entertains me as an actor, great. His life as a man is none of my business unless it affects me personally.
His racially motivated rantings made me swear never to see a movie of his or knowingly support one he would make money off of. I have no tolerance for people like him, good actor or not.
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PC, I'm sorry that this struck a raw nerve with you. Being mid-divorce, you have a different perspective and experience than others who have posted.
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I can speak to how I would conduct myself. If I were going through a divorce and met someone who I liked "A LOT", I'd wait. If the relationship is meant to happen, it can wait for both people to be free. That's the decision I would make for myself.
Why am I so adamant about this?
1. I've seen the devastation cause by infidelity (friend I mentioned).
2. I've been cheated on. 6 years later, it still hurts, and it still affects how much I trust my loved ones. I'm so mad at my ex for leaving me a legacy of distrust.
What frustrates me soooo much about "Octo-Mel" is that he seems proud of his actions. He has been on such a downslide for years now and I'm sick & tired of celebrities living like their actions are OK. The man is off and it's sad to see.
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I can speak to how I would conduct myself. If I were going through a divorce and met someone who I liked "A LOT", I'd wait. If the relationship is meant to happen, it can wait for both people to be free. That's the decision I would make for myself.
Why am I so adamant about this?
1. I've seen the devastation cause by infidelity (friend I mentioned).
2. I've been cheated on. 6 years later, it still hurts, and it still affects how much I trust my loved ones. I'm so mad at my ex for leaving me a legacy of distrust.
What frustrates me soooo much about "Octo-Mel" is that he seems proud of his actions. He has been on such a downslide for years now and I'm sick & tired of celebrities living like their actions are OK. The man is off and it's sad to see.
I married under the "better to marrry than burn" line of thinking twice, and was cheated on both times, the first one I caught in bed with someone else 10 days after the wedding, and got annulled. The second we were splitting up when he was in a fatal car accident.
My current husband was friends with both of my first 2, and had to good sence not to mention marriage for quite some time. There was every sign that hubby #2 was going to drag out the split for as long as he could, I was quite younger than he was and something of a trophy wife, he didn't understand that I would not allow him to keep a mistress as well.
You can't always control when you meet the one, and while I loathe cheating, it's also not fair to put your life at a stand still because a spouse doesn't want to become an exspouse gracefully. Did I cheat on mr saddi #2, no, I wasn't interested in seeing anyone after 2 bad relationships, would I have put my life on hold 3 years while he debated on staying married, or keeping the girlfriend? No.
Does Mel creep me out? throughly, but not for this one.
My current husband was friends with both of my first 2, and had to good sence not to mention marriage for quite some time. There was every sign that hubby #2 was going to drag out the split for as long as he could, I was quite younger than he was and something of a trophy wife, he didn't understand that I would not allow him to keep a mistress as well.
You can't always control when you meet the one, and while I loathe cheating, it's also not fair to put your life at a stand still because a spouse doesn't want to become an exspouse gracefully. Did I cheat on mr saddi #2, no, I wasn't interested in seeing anyone after 2 bad relationships, would I have put my life on hold 3 years while he debated on staying married, or keeping the girlfriend? No.
Does Mel creep me out? throughly, but not for this one.
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I haven;t read answers, but..... They have been seperated for 3 years. Anyhoo he is now on my list with Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Angelina Jolie and Penelope Cruz of actors I wont see.
I couldn't agree more. Sad, sad individuals.
I haven;t read answers, but..... They have been seperated for 3 years. Anyhoo he is now on my list with Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Angelina Jolie and Penelope Cruz of actors I wont see.
I couldn't agree more. Sad, sad individuals.
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I can speak to how I would conduct myself. If I were going through a divorce and met someone who I liked "A LOT", I'd wait. If the relationship is meant to happen, it can wait for both people to be free. That's the decision I would make for myself.
Why am I so adamant about this?
1. I've seen the devastation cause by infidelity (friend I mentioned).
2. I've been cheated on. 6 years later, it still hurts, and it still affects how much I trust my loved ones. I'm so mad at my ex for leaving me a legacy of distrust.
What frustrates me soooo much about "Octo-Mel" is that he seems proud of his actions. He has been on such a downslide for years now and I'm sick & tired of celebrities living like their actions are OK. The man is off and it's sad to see.
I was cheated on once too yet have never cheated, even though the
opportunity was there many a time. CT has a 90 "cooling off period" and
then other court delays. I'm already divorced in both my heart and mind,
in fact it's been that way for a long time but when children are involved
people tend to stick together for longer. I'm gonna stop now for fear of
getting too personal.
Mel's a nut job but I still like him. A very wise woman once told me that
it's hard to point fingers until we have walked the mile. I'm too busy
pointing my finger at myself in the mirror to have any fingers left to point
at Mel.
I can speak to how I would conduct myself. If I were going through a divorce and met someone who I liked "A LOT", I'd wait. If the relationship is meant to happen, it can wait for both people to be free. That's the decision I would make for myself.
Why am I so adamant about this?
1. I've seen the devastation cause by infidelity (friend I mentioned).
2. I've been cheated on. 6 years later, it still hurts, and it still affects how much I trust my loved ones. I'm so mad at my ex for leaving me a legacy of distrust.
What frustrates me soooo much about "Octo-Mel" is that he seems proud of his actions. He has been on such a downslide for years now and I'm sick & tired of celebrities living like their actions are OK. The man is off and it's sad to see.
I was cheated on once too yet have never cheated, even though the
opportunity was there many a time. CT has a 90 "cooling off period" and
then other court delays. I'm already divorced in both my heart and mind,
in fact it's been that way for a long time but when children are involved
people tend to stick together for longer. I'm gonna stop now for fear of
getting too personal.
Mel's a nut job but I still like him. A very wise woman once told me that
it's hard to point fingers until we have walked the mile. I'm too busy
pointing my finger at myself in the mirror to have any fingers left to point
at Mel.
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Exactly. Life is way too short and sometimes meeting the "one" is a
once in a lifetime occurance.
Exactly. Life is way too short and sometimes meeting the "one" is a
once in a lifetime occurance.
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Exactly. Life is way too short and sometimes meeting the "one" is a
once in a lifetime occurance.
The current Mr. Saddi will tell you he knew I was the one when he met me (I was engaged to hubby #1), and then he was waiting a "respectful" amount of time to ask me out when I started seeing #2. We've been married 10 years now, and the man has learned I make up my mind fast.
Exactly. Life is way too short and sometimes meeting the "one" is a
once in a lifetime occurance.
The current Mr. Saddi will tell you he knew I was the one when he met me (I was engaged to hubby #1), and then he was waiting a "respectful" amount of time to ask me out when I started seeing #2. We've been married 10 years now, and the man has learned I make up my mind fast.
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