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I also have an older half brother. I know nothing about him, where he is, who he is, how old he is... nothing more than I have one.
And I'm sorry... but I will never forgive him. He doesn't deserve to have my forgiveness. He also doesn't deserve my time... I know a lot of people believe it is important to forgive someone before they can move on with their life. Perhaps I look at forgiveness as something different. I look at it as a gift of sorts... and he will never deserve this gift from me.
I also don't believe that if I don't forgive, it will always be eating at me and on my mind. I don't forgive him, but I'm also not holding a grudge... I'm not angry about it all the time. I haven't even thought about him in years... let alone dwelled on him. When he first contacted me I wasn't angry till his "holy-ier than thou" attitude came into play. Him "forgiving" me got me fired up... and then the "heaven" thing set the eruption.
I have not responded to his last email and I'm not going to. I have vented and ranted and feel much better. I know he does not belong in my life and will not allow him to cause any drama for my family.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share...
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And I'm sorry... but I will never forgive him. He doesn't deserve to have my forgiveness. He also doesn't deserve my time... I know a lot of people believe it is important to forgive someone before they can move on with their life. Perhaps I look at forgiveness as something different. I look at it as a gift of sorts... and he will never deserve this gift from me.
I also don't believe that if I don't forgive, it will always be eating at me and on my mind. I don't forgive him, but I'm also not holding a grudge... I'm not angry about it all the time. I haven't even thought about him in years... let alone dwelled on him. When he first contacted me I wasn't angry till his "holy-ier than thou" attitude came into play. Him "forgiving" me got me fired up... and then the "heaven" thing set the eruption.
I have not responded to his last email and I'm not going to. I have vented and ranted and feel much better. I know he does not belong in my life and will not allow him to cause any drama for my family.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share...
D