I would like your opinion - it's an ethical question

I think this excerpt from the Dog's Prayer (posted earlier) says it all:

....And, beloved master, should the great Master see fit to deprive me of my health or sight, do not turn me away from you. Rather hold me gently in your arms as skilled hands grant me the merciful boon of eternal rest -- and I will leave you knowing with the last breath I drew, my fate was ever safest in your hands.

I believe we should do everything we can to help our pets live as long as they can and do everything we can to help them when they are sick and injured. But we should take a good hard look to make sure we are doing it for THEM and their welfare, not to make US feel better and put off facing the loss.
It's never easy, even when we KNOW it is the right thing to do.

This always makes me cry, but also gives comfort. I have included the 2 part since you said she was a rescue

The Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

PART 2

Is this it?:


Unlike most days at RainBow Bridge, this day dawned cold and gray, damp as a swamp and as dismal as could be imagined. All the recent arrivals were confused and concerned. They had no idea what to think for they had never experienced a day like this before. But the animals who had spent some time waiting for their beloved people knew exactly what was happening and began to gather at the pathway leading to the Bridge to watch. They knew this was something special.

It wasn't too long before an elderly animal came into view, head hung heavy and low with tail dragging along the ground. The other animals on the pathway...the ones who had been at RainBow Bridge for a while...knew the story of this sad creature immediately. They had seen it happen far too many times.

Although it was obvious the animal's heart was leaden and he was totally overcome with emotional pain and hurt, there was no sign of injury or any illness. Unlike the pets waiting at the Bridge, this dog had not been restored to his prime. He was full of neither health nor vigor. He approached slowly and painfully, watching all the pets who were by now watching him. He knew he was out of place here. This was no resting place for him. He felt instinctively that the sooner he could cross over, the happier he would be. But alas, as he came closer to the Bridge, his way was barred by the appearance of an Angel who spoke softly to the old dog and apologized sorrowfully, telling him that he would not be able to pass. Only those animals who were with their special people could pass over the RainBow Bridge. And he had no special beloved people...not here at the Bridge nor on Earth below.

With no place else to turn, the poor elderly dog looked toward the fields before the Bridge. There, in a separate area nearby, he spotted a group of other sad-eyed animals like himself...elderly and infirm. Unlike the pets waiting for their special people, these animals weren't playing, but simply lying on the green grass, forlornly and miserably staring out at the pathway leading to the Bridge. The recent arrival knew he had no choice but to join them. And so, he took his place among them, just watching the pathway and waiting.

One of the newest arrivals at the Bridge, who was waiting for his special people, could not understand what he had just witnessed and asked one of the pets who had been there for some time to explain it to him.

"That poor dog was a rescue, sent to the pound when his owner grew tired of him. They way you see him now, with graying fur and sad, cloudy eyes, was exactly the way he was when he was put into the kennels. He never, ever made it out and passed on only with the love and comfort that the kennel workers could give him as he left his miserable and unloved existence on Earth for good. Because he had no family or special person to give his love, he has nobody to escort him across the Bridge."

The first animal thought about this for a minute and then asked, "So what will happen now?"

As he was about to receive his answer, the clouds suddenly parted and the all-invasive gloom lifted. Coming toward the Bridge could be seen a single figure...a person who, on Earth, had seemed quite ordinary...a person who, just like the elderly dog, had just left Earth forever. This figure turned toward a group of the sad animals and extended outstretched palms. The sweetest sounds they had ever heard echoed gently above them and all were bathed in a pure and golden light. Instantly, each was young and healthy again, just as they had been in the prime of life.

From within the gathering of pets waiting for their special people, a group of animals emerged and moved toward the pathway. As they came close to the passing figure, each bowed low and each received a tender pat on the head or a scratch behind the ears. Their eyes grew even brighter as the figure softly murmured each name. Then, the newly-restored pets fell into line behind the figure and quietly followed this person to the Bridge, where they all crossed together.

The recent arrival who had been watching, was amazed. "What happened?"

"That was a rescuer," came the answer. "That person spent a lifetime trying to help pets of all kinds. The ones you saw bowing in respect were those who found new homes because of such unselfish work. They will cross when their families arrive. Those you saw restored were ones who never found homes. When a rescuer arrives, they are permitted to perform one, final act of rescue. They are allowed to escort those poor pets that couldn't place on Earth across the Rainbow Bridge. You see, all animals are special to them...just as they are special to all animals."

"I think I like rescuers," said the recent arrival.

"So does God," was the reply.
 
Painless euthanasia is the last kind, loving thing we can do for our pets. When their life no longer has quality, every day is filled with pain and their enthusiasm for living is no longer there, we know it is that time. We do this for our animals because we do love them. It is time to put our beloved companion ahead of our grief.
 
I personally have had to make that very difficult decision. No one can tell you what to do because you will have to live with it in the end. I believe you will know when the time is right and she will let you know.
I truelly believe that it is one of the most precious things we can do do for our beloved pets. To be there and hold them, to make them feel safe and let them feel our love. I was so very greatful I could make the decision when the time was right. My vet came to our house and did it in her bed. She just fell asleep in her safe place with all her people with her. It was beautiful! Sad! But a beautiful end to a great life!
My heart goes out to you and I hope you can find peace through it all!
 
well I am not in your shoes yet - but I will be
I have a 4 year old beagle/basset mix whom I adore- Dixie was born perfectly normal but when she was about 1.5 years old some jerks got a hold of her while we were out of town and beat her to a pulp just because they could - they left her with a broken pelvis, minor head trauma, and permenate nerve damage to her front leg ( she can no longer use the leg ). It also left Dixie older than she is all the damage and trauma aged her body at least by a year ahe can not longer hold her bladder and has accidents from time to time.
I was told to put her down when this happened but when I saw her and she wagged her tail with those basset hound eyes I could not do it.

But I also love her enough to know that when it is time to let her go I might have to make that decision for her. I dont look forward to it and I have already told family and friends that when that days come - they better be there to pick the pieces of me off the floor because I will totally lose it.

I think for your dog - I hate to say it - it might be time to let her go and rest, she has had a long full life and had a loving home and caring family for the past 8 years. Let her go but always remember how she was when her body was not hurting and she could see your loving face.

the peace you give your friend will also give you peace knowing you ended her pain and set her soul free.

Julie
 
I just recently had my 12 yr old German Shepard put down. She was my baby and it was the hardest decision I had to make. She had pancreatis with diabetes and it was getting hard for her to get around but she never acted as if she were in pain even when her legs would give out and she would have to stop and rest. I knew it was not the life she wanted to lead and that her quality of life was gone.

The second hardest was staying while the vet did it and holding her in my arms as she peacefully went to sleep. The ground was frozen and there was no way for me to bring her home to bury her so I had to leave her there for cremation. Even though I knew we really couldn't afford it, there was no way I wasn't bringing her home. Ultimately it cost $255 for everything to be taken care of. She was never an inside dog but now she rest on my mantel above the fireplace until we decide where her final place will be.

I will forever miss her but know she is in a better place. I hope you come to the best decision for your dog.
 
I have come to the conclusion that I would rather put my pets down a day too early, than a day too late.

I have never regretted euthanizing any of my pets once I have made the decision... but in several cases I have regretted that I waited so long.
 
My Suzie (rip) the dog I grew up with got to where she couldn't move around. Her legs just stopped working. I couldn't stand to see her like that. I knew her quality of life had depreciated. I had to put her down, for her sake.
 
Hi,
I'm so sorry that you're struggling with this difficult decision right now. I've had to do it twice but as another poster stated, was I keeping the animals alive for me because I couldn't bear to be without them or because it was best for them. In my case, I knew that because I really loved them...I had to let go...no judgement about you...only speaking personally. When the time came for each of them I stayed in the room with the vet and kept talking to the animal and stroking it as they say that hearing is the last sense to go. I cried like a baby afterwards and am starting to tear up right now...but in retrospect, I know that I was doing the right thing.
Good luck and one thing that might help you is to take the advice that you would give to your best friend.
God bless you and your loved one...
Suzy
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Let us know how it works out. We've all been there or will be sooner or later.
 
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We adopt retired racing greyhounds and have for years. Bone cancer has killed every single one of our hounds. In that case it's so obvious the ammount of pain they are in, that it does make the decision easier.

In your case, you seem to be aware that the quality of life your baby is living is very diminished.

Sometimes we hold onto our pets for our own good, rather than for the good of the animal.
 

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