Thanks I appreciate this.... And I will be the first to admit that the first post did sound awful and yes I need to ease off on my over use of the term lol haha but I was just venting not even asking for others opinion on the situation so thank you..... I hate loosing birds as well and I believe everything is under control now haha.....
it's happened to me before. if you lose a chick and don't make a 4 page post with a lot of sobbing and crying then you'll get a few sanctimonious "you should find another hobby" posts. eh, it IS the internet after all.