If you don't have children, then you have no right...

[rooster-red]

Ya just can't cure stupid.






(Meaning the guy that was ride)

 

[Emzyyy]

RUDE! ILL HANG HIM FROM HIS TOENAILS AND BLEED HIM OUT LIKE A GOAT!! (just had to say that <.<)

 

[EweSheep]

Alot of you got the same thing as I did! I had to chuckle at some of the comments in here.

Yes I had a C section with my first and only child and I would not trade her for anything in the world. And the nerve of people saying when you will be having another one!

Well, I had complications from pushing her out, her ol' head was trying to come out of the side of my lower hips, scatic nerve just hurts like heck and to this day I still have those effects. Took me a week to at least recover from the surgery and had infection a month later, mastitis on top of that one, a week before my wedding! Now do YOU want to have another child after all this mess? And my age, I was 39 and it was not the greatest idea to have another child after all that pain. My own mom didnt see her granddaughter for two weeks after she was born all because she didn't feel included and was not informed when I went to the hospital to have her. I didnt want ANYONE there except for my husband.

Oh yeah I get aplenty of unwanted advices from my mother and then has the gall to say our family counseling is not working or why my daughter has to color all over her bedroom walls (I am an artist and I didnt stop my DD using crayons to draw her imaginations of flowers and smiling faces on the walls...its too cute and it can be painted over!). And what I need to do and not do. Even taking her toys away when she is in punishment was bad enough and every gifts my own mom gives her comes with a condition. If I was to take her toy away for punishment, I was to give it back to my mother for good. Even it would take a month to "earn" that toy back since my DD is very stubborn, strong willed child but once she is good, she will earn her toys back and she does it well! As for family counseling, we as parents have perpectual problems that can not be solved but go in a joint effort to raise our DD the best way we know how even our own family upbringing is so different in alot of areas.

And I have a father in law who I enjoyed being with, just dont get it about wanting a grandson to carry on the family name and kept on to me about getting another child, hopefully a son. Sorry Pop, I can not have any because I had my tubes tied and it would benefit both of us as parents to focus on our DD and love her all the more she could get! Well to this day, he still thinks my tubes can untie and get some grandkids for him.

 

[redhen]

it has nothing to do with not having your own children...its more him just being a nutjob...IMO...

 

[Cetawin]

I would have came totally unglued on that dude.

By the time I got through with him his ego, IQ and masculinity would have been a whimpering pile of jello!

I guess I should be hung and quartered because I dared comment once years ago that my DD (who had colic) had kept me awake, walking and holding her for a week!

Years ago when my son was about 6 years old, we were in Sears and he was being a little butthead....running under the clothing racks and back and forth. I grabbed him and warned him to settle down and stop that nonsense or else! A minute or so later he shoots under one of the clothing racks again and when he came out, I was standing on the other side waiting for him. I spun him around and swatted his backside with my hand and was about to swat him a second time for trying to bite my arm when this woman, a complete stranger, grabs my wrist and yells at me "Don't you dare beat that child again"!

I turned to look at her, still holding the kicking and now screaming child and she backed away a step. Then I totally went off.

I told her that the last time I checked that the child I SMACKED was MINE! I continued with, I smacked the ass that I made and did not beat him...I will not tolerate him not doing as I tell him to and if you think you are so Fing great as a mother...TAKE HIM! I shoved my son at her and she backed away and said she was getting a manager. This is where it gets funny!

She comes back with the manager in tow and tells him I beat my son and was preparing to do so again. the manager asks me what was going on and I said "He would not listen and was running under the clothing racks knocking stuff down and I warned him...then i smacked his ass and then this psycho woman assaults me and puts her hand on me so it got ugly and she got you" and then I looked at her and sneerred and slowly turned to the manager and said "Sorry she bothered you Daddy" The Manager aka my father turned and looked at my son and said "Boy, I will tear you up if you do not behave yourself".

The woman stormed out of the store and I was really wanting to follow her and give her the beating she accused me of giving my son.

You handled it sooooooooooo much better than I would.

 

[SportTees]

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Some people with kids have no room to speak either

 

[hennypenny9]

I have no kids, but sometimes in my head, all I'm thinking is "do something about the screaming child my ear drums are going to burst!!" but I know MUCH better than to actually say it! Who knows, maybe the baby has colic or whatever. I'm smarter than to even LOOK at them funny, you know? I get more irritated with the parents who swear like sailors loudly in public. If I wince when they talk, what about their kids??

On a side note, my mom got tons of comments about her choice to have me in a birthing center, not a hospital. She would listen and say "well, I'm not sick, so I don't see why I need to be in a hospital..." Oh, and the birthing center was a block away from the hospital so if there was a complication, she'd be there in a jiffy.

So to finish... Can't fix stupid.

 

[redhen]

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thats an awesome story!

 

[preppy*hippie*chick]

I'd be restraining myself from whipping out my stun gun.

Why are ignorant people the most outspoken?

 

[Bettacreek]

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Well, you know that the human race wouldn't exist if they had to give birth on their own without a whole surgical team around them, lol. You know how we had hospitals eons ago, lol.