We don't need more stuff, and neither do our friends or family, so we make donations to various groups that we know they like to support -
Heifer Project
Habitat for Humanity
The local food banks
Sammie's Friends (a local np that pays vet bills for animals at the shelter so they have a better chance of being adopted)
We also buy toys for kids at the local shelter and choose a couple of kids off the giving tree from Big Brothers Big Sisters.
We'll take our family out for a family dinner or breakfast, so we can all spend some time together where we're not cooking.
Keep the ideas coming!