I'm having complications with the Baby.* UPDATE*Remember me?!

[AkTomboy]

My thoughts are with you and yours. I have a friend who is more like family and her story reads much the same. Saddly we just lost my two nieces and nephew at 20 weeks when her water broke. Please know we will be thinking of you and yours often.

 

[ChooksChick]

I'm praying for you, Holly! I know what it feels like where you are, to some extent, though I hadn't lost so many and had a 12 mo old when the Lydia thing happened...but I got to keep her, so maybe you will too!! Even if the Dr. won't put you on bed rest, make it self-imposed. I was told with both babies that I was only to be up and about to eat, drink, go to the bathroom and occasionally light walking, like to the store. No carrying over 10# no matter what...for at least 4 months! Past the point of neonatal sustainability, which was like 28 weeks back then, but is significantly less these days. You need to know where the closest hospital is with a NICU, because if you make it to 20 weeks, that's where you want to go if something happens.

I'm a bossy cow, so you can ignore me, but it's what I was told by an excellent specialist. I had the first nearly 5 weeks early, and the second was nearly 7. I was delighted to make it that far! God bless you.

Heavenly Father, find it in Your loving heart to lay a healing hand on this sister's womb- hold that sweet soul You placed there *in* her this time, God. Father hold her hand and her hubby's as this is really Your child they carry, and they want a chance to meet this soul and to raise it up with love, as You love each of us. Lord, this is all a prayer in Jesus's name. Amen

 

[Fuffy]

Hi
Thinking of you!!!

I lost one too, albeit much later, so I can feel for you!!!!
Wish I could say something to make it all go away!!!
Just that I, too, am thinking of you, and hoping you get the right kind of care and help, and that the outcome is wonderful for you!!!

 

[lovemychicns]

Sending prayers and healing hugs your way.

Karen

 

[chickygirl2]

I am so sorry for all the pain you are going through. You are in my prayers that you and your little one will make it through all of this.

 

[kagedgoddess]

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My husband is military so they will not let me, I was told "it didn't matter" however the docto who saw me in the ER yesterday has put in a refferal to OB and they are now going to see me. Military hospitals dont care, ecspecially the one here.

OH NO!!! honey i went thru this kinda thing when my DH was enlisted!! SWITCH right away to standard tricare or whatever so you can have a Civie dr!!!!!!!! i am pming you.

 

[the4heathernsmom]

I am so sorry but don't give up . I had four MC myself and was told I would never have children. A lot of time and a lot of prayers later I now have four healthy children only one born early with issues. Sometimes we don't understand why but God has a plan for us. Miracles happen every day and don't let a dr. who besides training and college is the same as yourself tell you otherwise. It was hard the pregnancies were tough and They took their toll on my body but you will get there hon. May not seem like it right now but one small step at a time. Be persistent with those dr.s be a thron in their side and demand to obtain what you need. I threw several hissy fits and I think sometimes they gave in just to get me out of there but I got my specialist. With your history you need to be with a high risk specialist. I don't think a regular ob would see you they would not touch me with a ten foot pole after seeing my history. I do not know much about military but you deserve better care than what you are getting. I am sorry for ya honey and prayers are sent your way. Keep your chin up and don't let someone tell you NO.

 

[ShaggysGirl]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I have 4 in heaven who never made it to this world so I know your heart ache. I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

 

[WingingIt]

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My husband is military so they will not let me, I was told "it didn't matter" however the docto who saw me in the ER yesterday has put in a refferal to OB and they are now going to see me. Military hospitals dont care, ecspecially the one here.

I don't know where you are, but I was high risk with my last preg. (we're active duty, too) and they DO have doctors there to care for those cases. I was able to have all of my care at our MTF. If yours is too small to have high risk doctors there then call the OB clinic and demand to speak to the patient representative. They are required by law to refer you outside for care if they cannot provide the high risk services there. Go be a giant PITA, it's totally worth it.

 

[dixiechick]

Prayers and happy thoughts sent to you and your little one!