- Sep 15, 2010
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there is NOTHING wrong with your braces... but something is wrong with him. People with class and self esteem do not go saying flimsy, critical things to others. He does not have the above, that is what is wrong.
Yes, it is unfortunate we cannot be honest with people and tell them it hurts when they say mean immature things like that, but Welsummerchicks is right....if you let him see it is getting to you it may cause further teasing.
I once heard of this thing where the victim of a taunt just kept saying "So?" forcing the taunter into the position of having to defend his defenseless position.
She just kept saying "So?" and sometimes "So? what's it to you?" and at some point "So? Apparently it IS a big deal to you, YOU are the one that brought it up"
It backed the taunter into a corner and he was looking like the jerk he is....
don't know if that could possibly help.
...and last, does he happen to have a crush on you? Guys can be mean to girls they actually like because sometimes some boys are real stupid at communication....
hang in there dear
Yes, it is unfortunate we cannot be honest with people and tell them it hurts when they say mean immature things like that, but Welsummerchicks is right....if you let him see it is getting to you it may cause further teasing.
I once heard of this thing where the victim of a taunt just kept saying "So?" forcing the taunter into the position of having to defend his defenseless position.
She just kept saying "So?" and sometimes "So? what's it to you?" and at some point "So? Apparently it IS a big deal to you, YOU are the one that brought it up"
It backed the taunter into a corner and he was looking like the jerk he is....
don't know if that could possibly help.
...and last, does he happen to have a crush on you? Guys can be mean to girls they actually like because sometimes some boys are real stupid at communication....
hang in there dear
