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I never bring it up. Never ever. Unless I'm asked or if there's the "Do you have any dietary restrictions? question somewhere. I can't think of a single time it's come up without eye rolls at the very least or insults at the worst. Even here on BYC from people I care about and respect.Hi there.
This made me chuckle to think about.
I've been around OV (Original Vegans) when I worked for a Yoga retreat way back in my youth, and I think that I know the kind of people you are talking about.
And yep, never once was anyone pushy, angry, self-righteous, preachy, or any of the things some people claim Vegans to be.
I've never been shamed for being a meat-eater. Not even once, over the course of over 20 years being around an area FULL of those type of people.
They would if asked talk about why they chose what they did, but it never came up unprompted. It was me being curious about the foods THEY were eating because it was so different from anything I'd grown up around.
They didn't ever make me feel bad about it, but they're choices made me think. It's directly because of them that I went down the road to keeping chickens, and a garden.
I personally think that for the most part it's projection. People feel like they should feel guilty after learning about the practices of the factory farming industry and then project that attitude.
I've never seen anyone just go around to places where people eat meat and criticize them. I can't even imagine it.
Knowing how every Vegan I've ever met has acted that's absurd to the level of being hilarious. Like you'd only ever see it in some kind of fake joke skit on SNL or some other show. Like can you imagine them going into like a Longhorn Steakhouse or something? LOL
Now...my old Aunt, God rest her soul, SHE did have an opinion about what EVERYONE was eating, what they were doing, and such. LOL Had nothing to do with being Vegan or Carnivore, or what have you. Just a well meaning old lady trying to keep you healthy.![]()
And imma be honest - there are times I really, really want to say something to people about how I think some of the aspects of meat-eating are cruel. But I know better. It's not my place, and all it would do is deepen the divide. If folks see animals as commodities as opposed to living beings, nothing I'm going to say to them in that moment will change their minds.
And then I'd be called a snowflake...