Mary, above, had the same answers to your questions that I would suggest.
I'd like to add: My first (and now, only) equine partner and I will have been together 23 years this coming October. Before I considered buying a horse, I spent half a year taking English lessons (hunter over fences) at a boarding/lesson barn, riding several different horses. I participated only in English riding, mostly jumping and some lower level dressage training. Then, I leased a 'schoolmaster' (experienced horse) at the same barn for another 2 1/2 years while continuing jumping lessons and competing in local hunter/jumper shows. I learned about breeds, feed requirements, grooming, veterinary care and emergencies, hoof care, trimming/shoeing, tack selection/care, training, behavior, etc. etc. etc. After those 2 1/2 years, I knew I had the desire, the time, and the financial resources to find my own horse. And even though, years later, I no longer ride, I am STILL learning (especially about colic
).
Leasing and taking lessons on the right horse can introduce you to all those facets of horse ownership I listed above, without the total commitment of ownership right off the bat. You'd still be responsible for all horse expenses (farrier, vet, board, etc. etc) but if you change focus or things don't work out, you can step away from the plan if needed.
If leasing a horse is not available within driving distance, then I would strongly suggest first taking lessons at a lesson barn. Jumping into horse ownership without seeing and/or experiencing first-hand some of the daily and long-term requirements and continuous financial demands is a setup for an unhappy situation. Just my opinion!
I'd like to add: My first (and now, only) equine partner and I will have been together 23 years this coming October. Before I considered buying a horse, I spent half a year taking English lessons (hunter over fences) at a boarding/lesson barn, riding several different horses. I participated only in English riding, mostly jumping and some lower level dressage training. Then, I leased a 'schoolmaster' (experienced horse) at the same barn for another 2 1/2 years while continuing jumping lessons and competing in local hunter/jumper shows. I learned about breeds, feed requirements, grooming, veterinary care and emergencies, hoof care, trimming/shoeing, tack selection/care, training, behavior, etc. etc. etc. After those 2 1/2 years, I knew I had the desire, the time, and the financial resources to find my own horse. And even though, years later, I no longer ride, I am STILL learning (especially about colic

Leasing and taking lessons on the right horse can introduce you to all those facets of horse ownership I listed above, without the total commitment of ownership right off the bat. You'd still be responsible for all horse expenses (farrier, vet, board, etc. etc) but if you change focus or things don't work out, you can step away from the plan if needed.
If leasing a horse is not available within driving distance, then I would strongly suggest first taking lessons at a lesson barn. Jumping into horse ownership without seeing and/or experiencing first-hand some of the daily and long-term requirements and continuous financial demands is a setup for an unhappy situation. Just my opinion!