I haven't heard that before about lower temps for hatching. I always keep my temp stable throughout, right up till all the chicks have dried and I'm ready to take them out of the bator. My chicks have sat in the bator at 99.5F (fan assisted) for up to two and a half days with no ill effects. I'd be wary of messing with temps now if I were you.
If you set them on a Sunday then they should hatch on a Sunday too, that's 21 days.
Easy way to figure out your projected hatch day! So yes, you're on day 19 just now.
If the instructions for your bator say to keep both vents open in lockdown then I'd say keep them open. In the last few days of incubation, chicks need the extra oxygen as much as they need the higher humidity. If you need to increase your humidity you should do it by increasing the surface area of the water in your bator, not by decreasing the air circulation. Anything above 60% should be fine for hatching. And yes, it'll rise as they start to hatch.