Absolutely. All we can do is our best. As for the absurdity of bickering and nitpicking over definitions... Dude. Stop. Please. Your reality, your perceptions, your experience, is not my own. What means one thing to one person, means something else entirely to another.
Please, BE KIND!!! To ourselves, animals, other humans...
Most of all, the idea of the "One Twue Way" in MANY walks of life, was debunked quite some time ago. If your "vegan" is not my "vegan", does it seriously matter? My reality, my feelings, emotions, likes and dislikes, all of that, it's my own. Anyhoo!
Stoic philosophy! It's got all the answers, lol. Well, a lot of them.
“Don’t seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will—then your life will flow well.”
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Epictetus, Enchiridion
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
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Marcus Aurelius