Is it Wrong to have a "Crush" on Someone if You Are Married?

[kla37]

Yes, I do think it's wrong to have a crush on someone else it you are married. That being said, there shouldn't be a reason for you to feel that way about someone else, and if you do it could stem from some other problem. Get thee to a therapist!

 

[Robin'sBrood]

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Yep, what she said!

 

[deerman]

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Deerman-you could have been my hubby-for 10 years I begged for attention for me and my girls-he was a good man who worked very hard to give a great things-I didnt care about "those things" I wanted a friend and spouse-not a part time hubby who my girls cried for everynight before bed. I needed him-not the $ he was making- It took a horrible seperation for him to see that light and how much he missed. We had equal visitation and it forced him to be into their lives 3-4 nights a weeks ( he had them 3 days straight Fri-Sat-Sun I had them M-F through school days since I moved to town and he stayed 20 miles out of town) It opened his eyes to what he should have been doing for them and with me. he is a much better, understanding, cooler dad because of it all-"he gets me" NOW...

Oh believe me I see the bad mistakes I made...I did get my boys she had visitation every other week end. I did change my life ,and spend alot of time with my sons and grandkids, just to late for the X.

 

[sonew123]

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Deerman-you could have been my hubby-for 10 years I begged for attention for me and my girls-he was a good man who worked very hard to give a great things-I didnt care about "those things" I wanted a friend and spouse-not a part time hubby who my girls cried for everynight before bed. I needed him-not the $ he was making- It took a horrible seperation for him to see that light and how much he missed. We had equal visitation and it forced him to be into their lives 3-4 nights a weeks ( he had them 3 days straight Fri-Sat-Sun I had them M-F through school days since I moved to town and he stayed 20 miles out of town) It opened his eyes to what he should have been doing for them and with me. he is a much better, understanding, cooler dad because of it all-"he gets me" NOW...

Oh believe me I see the bad mistakes I made...I did get my boys she had visitation every other week end. I did change my life ,and spend alot of time with my sons and grandkids, just to late for the X.

awesome...some people do get "it" others dont and will forever re-live their mistakes with every new person they come into contact with-obviously if you ex is on what #4 now...eee gads!

 

[deerman]

Yep she just got her 4 th biG D....We were married 23 years. She has been married 3 more times. Sad thing she took my last name back

Point I was making she acted on her crush , pack up and moved out. Sure we could have fixed the problem before.

 

[joebryant]

I have a crush on Anna Netrebko, and I'm 100% sure that she is searching the world to find me. Once she does and shows up in a long limousine to take me away with her, I'm out of here for greener pastures.

 

[deerman]

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Joe better hope she come from the west, if from the east, I will grab her up before she gets to your state.

 

[rodriguezpoultry]

I've got a list of people I'd go for:

Matt Dallas
Justin Timberlake
Taylor Lautner (Jacob from Twilight series.)

 

[BlackBart]

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Is it a secret crush on me?

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Here I am at my finest!

You are HOT... and there would be something wrong with me if you are not

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Try to figure out why your unhappy before you do anything that you can't undo.

 

[ChickensAreSweet]

Yes. Absolutely.