It sounds like she and you have a very dysfunctional relationship. While she may love you "in her way" and it may be a lot for her, she may not express it, or even know how to express it. If you were the one caring for her as a child there may have been some alcohol abuse on her part, and getting involved in an Adult Children of Alcoholics group may prove beneficail to you.
And yes, I would be very hurt if someone said that they didn't want to buy 'two' seats for me, esp. if it was my mother
And yes, I would be very hurt if someone said that they didn't want to buy 'two' seats for me, esp. if it was my mother