That makes it extremely difficult! I've had many a patient in just that stage in their lives and it usually takes something major to happen before they can be placed somewhere safer...like a stay in the hospital related to illness or injury. Not very often do they have the presence of mind left to realize the danger in which they are living when they can no longer remember if they took their meds or not, if they left something on the stove or left the water running in the sink or tub.
I'm fortunate in that I moved to live with my mother in her home, so she doesn't have to go anywhere or be persuaded to move. Even yet, she resists too much interference with her diet or daily routines that may lead to trouble....I have to be very subtle and know when to step back and try again another day. Each day gets easier as she grows a little more dependent upon my help but I still have to stand back a lot and let her learn this part of her life on her own to some degree.
I don't envy your position...that must be agony!
I'm fortunate in that I moved to live with my mother in her home, so she doesn't have to go anywhere or be persuaded to move. Even yet, she resists too much interference with her diet or daily routines that may lead to trouble....I have to be very subtle and know when to step back and try again another day. Each day gets easier as she grows a little more dependent upon my help but I still have to stand back a lot and let her learn this part of her life on her own to some degree.
I don't envy your position...that must be agony!