I agree with you to an extent, environmental factors primarily.
When your uncle saw symptoms, ie lethargy, reduced or not eating and all other possibilities eliminated before worming birds, did he consider the damage that has already occurred in the digestive tract and other internal damage prior to worming?
Birds are more susceptible to diseases due to worms weakening their immune system. Same is true for mammals.
We worm our dog on a monthly basis to prevent heartworms and other worms, not to mention a 3 month dose of Bravecto to prevent ticks and fleas. That's the way it is in our environment.
It's the same with chickens. Our environment, including the soil is warm, moist or wet most of the time. It's worm soup and other nasties. That's the way it is.
Chickens constantly peck the soil, in doing so they also pick up unseen worm eggs and swallow them. That's how the worms lifecycle gets started.
If you live in a cooler or cold environment or desert, rocky or mountainous area, you may not have to worm birds as often.
I've been using Valbazen for years and havnt seen resistance. There are other wormers available and I've used most of them at one time or another, but Valbazen is my go to wormer. It's very effective.