Being a member of the BYC staff provides a VERY unique perspective. If all the members could see the hundreds of reports we receive every week and the other hundreds of PMs and emails we get, they would more fully understand why we have the rules we have and why we moderate the way we do.
We don't mean (or want) to treat any of our members like children. Our staff has over 60 years of combined experience with moderating this community and we've learned quite a bit about how our members interact and what does and doesn't work.
A reminder: The BYC Staff don't and can't read all of the 7,000 posts per day. We act on things that are reported. If members see anything that isn't in harmony with our rules (e.g., you feel like you are being attacked) they should either report the issue or kindly discuss the issue with other members via private message.
At times we'll just need to ask that our members trust that we know what we're doing and it is because of our moderators, our policies, and the way we police them, is the reason why BYC has become the largest and fastest growing chicken community on the planet.