My DH has a really good job so thankfully we have survived 2 years nearly of me not being able to work due to ill health.However I have been able to play my part due to trying to be super frugal. I use coupons,try and run out the cupboards before always buying more food, grow what I can and my 3 pet chickens help with eggs. Also I generally shop online for things.
Ebay can be cheaper than taking the car to the shops even with postage sometimes.I subscribe to lots of frugal and dollar busting websites (even though Im in UK the US ones are great for ideas!)I also subscrible to freegle,freecycle and free mesa sites and always send off for free samples on the net.I have not had to buy any moisturiser for 2 years! My DH is now trained to collect sugar sachets and shampoos when he travels with work even because every little helps.I have been crafting and hope to try and sell some stuff too.Clothes generally come from charity shops or
ebay (mainly for hubby as man sizes dont vary as much as womens!) .My hubby before he met me always bought new and the best he could afford.I agree that sometimes spending that bit more works best-we just swapped our coop for a shed (but I still sold the coop on to get money back).We should have just bought a shed in the first place but DH is now teaching me too about quality over quantity! We all need less than we have and gifting,freecycling or selling our unwanted items is a great way to feel positive about what you let go.I love it when I give stuff away for free to someone who can use it,just as great as I feel when I get stuff I need for free back.Living this way certainly makes you appreciate everything more.
If we do eat out I take baggies for leftovers.The crazy thing is we dont leave left overs-its generally others! I sat down in a restaurant with a friend and the table had not yet been cleared from the last people.Infront of me was a HUGE gammon steak and veggie bits.The gammon went to my 4 foster cats who loved it and the veggies to the chickens!My friend was not embarrassed -she has known me a long time,and knows I cant bear waste. I used to be a vegetarian and even though I now eat some meat I respect the process too much to waste that hunk of gammon.!
People now save me food for the chickens.My Mum freezes leftovers in small baggies which she brings when she visits!Its better than a bunch of flowers watching my chickens decide which bits they like or not!Please note though I dont give them anything with curry or chilli though as I dont think thats right. It is actually illegal too to feed chickens leftovers here in the UK which I think is ridiculous!
Anyway thats my two penneth!
love to all Helen xxxx