My grandad always said if you weren't dirty, you didn't do nothing. Well you can tell most days by looking at me and DD that we did PLENTY. I love that my 4 year old would rather be outside making mud pies than sitting in front of the TV. I also let her play in the rain, bathe her puppy, run naked thru mud puddles. They are only little once, let them be kids. And mine always comes running up to me, dripping mud from her hair and says "mama, we're makin memories ain't we". That always tickles me to death.