Ok, I may not be 30, or a girl but heres my opinion on tatoos, Spend 6 years in Navy and never got one, Have seen Lots on guys and girls that were OK, but my fear of needles, and my mother disowning me prevents me from getting one.
I think the ones done in someones kitchen while High or drunk are the best reminders to those that have them Dont Drink and Tat, its a lifelong commitment.
I think the best ones can be hidden if needed. So small tastefully done YES, Large covering both arms, neck and half of face NO. old
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As a mother I can assure you that if you got a tattoo she wouldnt disown you
just dont put it on your face
but then again you said that your afraid of needles so the truth is
your afraid of the pain
just kidding