No matter what happens, hold your head high! Crap happens. Lately, it's been happening to lots and lots more people. I'm in the same boat. We have just filed Chapter 13. Were suppose to send in our first payment last week when I was having to go to all kinds of doctor appointments. $70 co-pay per specialist! Friday, I got the results of my tests. Cancer is back. This is what got us in this mess in the first place. Do you pay for chemo, food, truck or house payments? Even better, my husband just got laid off because his company has filed Chapter 11.
Have you contacted HUD? They really helped us out when we got behind when my husband was laid off the first time a few years back. Who is your lender? Wells Fargo is ours and they are impossible to work with. Keep calling your lender until you can find someone to help you.