@nicalandia is awesome at explaining geneticsAsk and you shall receive. I consider Tadkerson one of the top three geneticists that was ever active on this forum. Unfortunately none of them are now active. I don't know if you can understand this, I'll freely admit I had to read it several times before even the basics sunk in. I find the more I learn about this the less I actually know. Whether or not you can actually get your head around it I don't know. Many people can't. Or won't. Good luck with it.
Tadkerson’s Sex Link Thread
http://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=261208
There are a few things that have to happen before you get a sex linked chick. The mother has to have the Dominant version of the sex linked gene and the father has to have both genes at that gene pair to be the Recessive version of that sex linked gene. The other one is that you have to be able to see the difference at hatch. It's easy to forget this second one, actually being able to see it.
Your Silver Laced Male and Barred Rock female meet both of these requirements according to Tadkerson's Chart for Black Sex Links. I have not done that cross myself. When they hatch the males will have barring and the females will not. The way you see the barring at hatch is that the boy will have a spot on it's head and the girls will not. That article has photos showing what to look for.
There are combinations where the boys will be barred and the girls will not but you can't see the head spot at hatch because of the down color. Once they feather out you will see the barring on the boys feathers as long as the feathers are not white but you can't see it at hatch.