I was going to ask you about what to do or say. This is my first close encounter with terminal cancer of a friend. I send him text hugs and give in person hugs. I told him that he has always wanted to make the most of each day and I will help with that. I told him I was sorry about the test results and sad. I just don't know. He said the chemo made him so sick that he didn't think he wanted to do that again since they offer no hope of a cure. Can you help with what to say or do? PS. When I had cervical pre-cancer, they just took everything out, but I was 42 and single.
I've helped a couple of friends when they decided to quite treatment.I'd say be honest if they ask you something. And be there a lot of friends distance themselves because they don't know what to say. Pray it helps with healing and passing. Sometimes they just need a hug or a hand held. Pam