YOU have to decide what you are comfortable giving to a person. A dozen eggs, 1 package of lamb, etc. Whatever the amount, whether it be weekly, monthly, etc. Then, that's it. Done. Let it go. Whatever they do with it after that is their business. Of course, if I know that the person I'm giving the "stuff" to is giving it all away, that WILL influence how much I give them. I like you want to "gift" my eggs, etc as a gesture of thanks, friendship...
Exactly! So, the amount that he is giving away is that amount that he doesn't need or has too much of and the remaining amount will be his share.
3 dozen eggs given to him
2 dozen eggs given away by him
1 dozen eggs is what he has left, so this is what he will get from now on as evidenced by what he gives away
2 packs of lamb meat give to him
2 packs of lamb is given away by him
0 packs of lamb is what he has left, so this is what he will get from now on as evidenced by what he gives away.
This will be an easy fix.

Last edited: