I am not particularly religious...I have my higher power and I am a good neighbor but I don't attend any church. I don't need to be saved, and I live a christian life. Or a good Jewish life, or a good Muslim life...pick one. All religions have a belief in helping those in need. The Internet hugely expanded my concept of neighbors. Melissa is my neighbor. Unfortunately she is a neighbor seven or eight hundred miles away.
I live a frugal, rather isolated life...and my income is below the poverty level....but I have ten or twenty bucks I can live without. All I need to know is where to send it. I can't be the only one.
I've followed and been involved in this thread and my belief system is such that I am compelled to do something. I can't get in my poor old Blazer and go to to help.
Melissa needs someone to help her cull her birds. It is her decision of what to do, but it appears she has decided. After she separates those she wants to cull from those she doesn't...someone needs to relieve her from the burden of actually doing it. It is bad enough to lose most of your flock...hard enough to make the decision to cull the rest...it is too hard as far as I'm concerned to have to actually chop off the heads or whatever and dispose of the remains properly. If one of us can't help...then maybe a few bucks extra will allow her to pay someone to do it.
Melissa mentioned that her final paycheck from her previous job was not even sufficient to pay her rent. So she must also be worried about that.
She has neither the time or money to be with her sister who has such a short time remaining...her sister will need support that frankly I don't know where Melissa will get the ability from to support her. I would be crushed under the burdens she is coping with.
If she is working 30 hours a week...it is possible to schedule those thirty hours as three ten hour days in the end of one work period, followed by thirty hours in the first three days of the next pay period...or six days in a row...which could be followed by the next eight days off. I very much doubt she feels OK asking a supervisor to do this for her...she has just started working there...no one asks for special privileges at a brand new job. If she had eight days off in a row...maybe she could hop a bus to go to her sister. I spend between five and six hundred bucks a month at my
Walmart...they 'know' me. I'm willing to ask. Alone that has little influence but if a hundred folks emailed her supervisor...that counts. If
Walmart is unwilling to do this for her...then I'm going to make that very well known. And start shopping at Kmart. This is an invasion of Melissa's privacy and I won't do anything without her permission. Chances are her supervisor is not even aware of the huge challenges she is facing.
Melissa with grace and patience has accepted our suggestions, criticisms, and comments. We are basically a bunch of strangers who have neither the right, or the privilege to dictate to her or to demand she behave in a manner we feel is the 'right' way. Yes, I realize she asked.
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