Attimus you are right as rain. They day was just starting and we need to find joy in it. My friend treated me to a facial and massage. I was so apprehensive about this cause relaxation to me is floating the river and being outside... I'm not super girlie... It was amazing!!!!!!!! I might have fell asleep during it for a minute!!!! Never experienced anything like it. Just got home... Trying to tell the troops to pick up the house with little effect. Already raked... Was gonna change coop bedding but I think my soon to be mother in law is coming over to hang with me and the hens. Gotta keep family in prayer today.... Stressful time for us..... And probably not the best time for a wedding but we will make it through.... Sil mother is not doing well and needs extra assistance from her daughters... A very hard and horrible situation which makes it hard to find the strength and time to celebrate. Lack of communication... He said she said and hurt feelings always leads to a mess.... So I'm hoping I was able to quench it a bit. Hope you all have a great day and thanks for listening to me ramble.