well...if i was a fire mans wife and my husband was injured in the line of duty...i'd be real mad...if the fire was set by an arsonist..done on purpose....yeah...its okay to be upset when someone you love gets hurt cause some wacko is setting fires.....same thing for shelter workers....its okay for them to vent..its human....and healthy also..when you see so much pain...and you cant stop it....Wendy..p.s...also..i hope the mods dont shut this down..as far as i can see..noone is breaking any rules yet....lets keep it that way....its okay to express feelings....wendy