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Math - I know it's a very personal decision, but do you think a day program or a home health aide might help you with your Dad?
Depending on how he's functioning - Day program might give some nice interaction and socialization (other than you, of course!) to keep him happy and give him some other scenery than your place.
If he's not functioning that well these days, a home health aide could be a HUGE help with helping with sleep/wake cycles, so you can sleep at night; keeping track of him in the daytime, so you don't have to worry about him or anyone/thing else getting hurt; plus, they can help with dressing/feeding/washing, as needed.
Plus, then you'd have more time to enjoy each other, rather than trying to take care of "his business" which sometimes causes resentment...
BUT that is a VERY personal decision to have a "stranger" in your home....
Just a thought... ((hugs))
Depending on how he's functioning - Day program might give some nice interaction and socialization (other than you, of course!) to keep him happy and give him some other scenery than your place.
If he's not functioning that well these days, a home health aide could be a HUGE help with helping with sleep/wake cycles, so you can sleep at night; keeping track of him in the daytime, so you don't have to worry about him or anyone/thing else getting hurt; plus, they can help with dressing/feeding/washing, as needed.
Plus, then you'd have more time to enjoy each other, rather than trying to take care of "his business" which sometimes causes resentment...
BUT that is a VERY personal decision to have a "stranger" in your home....
Just a thought... ((hugs))