I can hear your frustration with Attila! I have enjoyed reading about her! She does have a strong personality. My bully also has the strongest personality in the flock, even though she is lowest in the pecking order. She sneaks up behind people and gives them nasty pecks that make you jump. I always warn people to look out for her because she bites
. But she will also let you snuggle and caress her for hours and is so snuggly. However, she is the one that gets past my recycling can barrier all the time and walks up to the back door to call me. She has even, on several occasions, jumped through the hole in the netting (that I need to fix) into the kitchen. When I unload groceries, I return to the car and find her inside. She's so curious and bold! The cook pot is not an option. As you stated earlier, these girls are our pets. Rehoming doesn't feel like an option either. I'm going to tough it out and see what happens. I was secretly relieved to read that I'm not the only one who goes through these shenanigans at bedtime, early in the am, etc... Good luck with Attila! Based on your descriptions, she does seem like a keeper (you did mention that she was very lovable before the babies came) although I understand that you need to do what you need to do.
Just made me smile to read you say that too. 
